[Introduction]: Dear, I know that your requirements are not high. What you have done only hopes to be understood, but such requirements are extravagant hopes and extravagant hopes for you. You don’t want someone to tell you. You think everyone has bitter water; Every family has a hard book to read; Every lamp has a story; So, you get used to it, I like to immerse myself in words, read other people’s stories and taste my mood. Every year, I want to knock down a few words on my birthday to thank the people around me for their companionship and parents for their hard-working upbringing, because everyone’s birthday is a mother’s suffering day. But this year, I just want to write to myself. Dear, congratulations on your growing one year older. Remember, you can only say that you are one year older, not one year older. Even if you are really old, you can’t give in, let alone live in depression, because, life is just like a mirror. You laugh at it and laugh at it. You cry when it is sad. The road is still long. You have to go on well. Even if the storm comes, you have to face it bravely, because there is wind, rain and sunshine on the road of life. Dear, for so many years, you are worthy of everyone, but you are sorry for yourself. For the sake of family, you have given up your dreams and pursuits; For the sake of family, you have no thoughts and no self, in those years, you, who were full of ideals and eager to fly, were wiped out by tired work and heavy housework. You were happy with the happiness of your family, and bitter water could be used as coffee. You share the sadness of your family and only hope that they can be happy. For so many years, when the wind comes and the rain goes, you have not given yourself a good day off all the year round. Even if you are unwell and often suffer from headache, you still go to work and take care of your family, others say that you are very strong and can survive. Only you know best that you are not delicate. Dear, in order to be a good wife, you have changed from a wild girl who has never touched the spring water to a housewife who is responsible for housework. The process during this period is not that you can speak clearly in a few words, but your hard work, it is invisible contribution. Your contribution is sometimes not recognized. You admit it, because you are a woman, it is natural for a woman to do housework. For so many years, you have never eaten a meal cooked by others, and have never experienced the feeling of being served by others. Even if you are ill in bed, even if you have no appetite, you still have to climb up with your scalp and finish the meal before you go back to bed, because this is your duty. If you don’t cook, the old and the children will have to be hungry. Every time on festivals, two tables or three tables are playing cards with guests. Only you are wearing an apron. When you are busy, the glasses on the table are ringing, you drank with a spatula in the kitchen and listened to the laughter all over the table. You were so busy. When the guests are drunk and full of food, you have to clean up and wash after eating. No one will help you, but you can only do it yourself. Your harvest is a hard work. Dear, in order to be a good wife, you take care of your mother-in-law with Alzheimer’s disease wholeheartedly without complaint. My mother-in-law is taken care of by brothers in turn. You hope that your mother-in-law will live more comfortable in your home than in their home. You hope that your husband can speak straight in front of your brother and sister, you try your best to do your best. You go home after finishing your work every day. The dementia mother-in-law can’t take care of herself. You have to feed her one by one when eating. You feed her well patiently. Your mother-in-law is incontinent and often pulls it on her body. You have to take a bath and change clothes for her. When you clean up the low-weight mother-in-law, you are exhausted. Others say that you have a lot of strength, but in fact, you just hold on. Others say that you have a good appetite. In fact, only you know that every time you help your mother-in-law change pants, you spit them out together with bitter water while washing, but you still hold back, hold back, you know in your heart that raising children to prevent old age is the responsibility and obligation. Occasionally, the mother-in-law with dementia will also say that you are a good wife, because of one sentence, you will feel satisfied. When others praise you as a good wife, only you know how hard and Patient A good wife is. Dear, in order to be a good daughter, you have to take time out of your busy schedule every month, ride a motorcycle for three hours, go home to visit your parents and have dinner with them, because your mother suffers from severe heart disease, you want to spend more time with your parents during their lifetime. In fact, you are very tired, but when you see your mother’s satisfied smile, you feel that no matter how tired you are, because you don’t want the regret that your son wants to be filial but his kiss is absent to happen to you. You are afraid that your parents will save money and give them money secretly. You hope that when they want to eat something, they will buy something they like to eat. Don’t wait until they can’t eat it, and look at the delicacies of mountains and seas to quench thirst. It is said that it is difficult to be a man, but it is more difficult to be a woman. One side wants to be filial to parents, and the other side needs to take into account her husband’s feelings. Therefore, he often gets more and less in front of her husband, you are just afraid that you will feel uncomfortable if your husband says nothing more. Therefore, you transfer your apology to your mother-in-law and try your best to make up for it. Every time you buy things for your mother-in-law, you will never be stingy. Dear, in order to be a good mother and prevent your children from becoming one of the many left-behind children, you gave up the opportunity to go out and keep a hard and tiring job, I have been doing it for more than ten years. Others said that this kind of work wronged you, and you learned to make fun in hardship. You said that as long as the family was together, it would be nothing if you were more bitter and tired. People were originally a laborer. Dear, I know that your requirements are not high. What you have done only hope to be understood, but such requirements are extravagant hopes and extravagant hopes for you. You don’t want someone to tell you. You think everyone has bitter water; Every family has a hard book to read; Every lamp has a story; So, you get used to it, I like to immerse myself in words, read other people’s stories and taste my mood. Dear, tomorrow is your birthday, make a wish! These years have really made you suffer, and you can live for yourself at any time. Remember to be kind to yourself while being kind to others.

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