I was at home alone last night, and suddenly I felt a little more lonely. I didn’t know what to do. My wife worked night shift, and her eldest daughter didn’t stay at home for ten days during summer vacation. She was recalled by the school long ago and prepared for the selection of TV Defense contest. Her youngest daughter started her three-year high school life yesterday because she was far away from home, if you live in school, you will not go home every day after school like junior high school. As long as they are at home, they will be full of vitality, even sometimes, there is a little smoke, which is called popularity or anger. The days will really be inadvertently, like water in a hurry. Not to mention that my eldest daughter finished junior high school in her hometown, then went to senior high school and took part in the College Entrance Examination. Now she is a junior. Her youngest daughter has been studying in Suzhou city, and she is also in primary school and junior high school. Now she is also. In these years, although the cold came and went, looking back, it was really fleeting, and I couldn’t catch up with it if I wanted. Looking at it with low eyebrows, the children said that if they were big, they would be big. They were no longer those active and naughty people in the past. Yesterday was Saturday. I was supposed to go to work. I asked the leader for instructions and took a day off to send my little daughter to school. Although compared with her classmates who were admitted to Su High School, Mudu High School and Su Yuan high school, it seemed to be a little deficient, it was also good to be admitted to Jiangsu Foreign language school. The child still worked hard, I really worked hard. In terms of the admission scores of the school, the old and the young were able to go to Suyuan middle school, but they were not sure at that time. They were a little conservative when filling in the volunteer, so they did not dare to fill in. But being admitted to a foreign language school proves that I still worked hard in junior high school for three years. Apart from Su High School, Mudu High School, Su yuan High School and foreign language school all have their own characteristics, and they are always the first choice for parents and examinees, so they cannot simply favor one another. I have always thought that the advantages and disadvantages of schools are just one aspect. If students lack the desire to advance, are not good at studying, do not study seriously, and go to schools no matter how good they are, they may not really be competitive. Personal efforts far exceed other factors. When I got the admission notice, I warned the children that the junior high school life was coming to an end and the senior high school life was about to begin. The achievements made in junior high school have become the past. It only shows that the goal of this stage has been achieved through our own efforts. For the next goal, everything is unknown and full of variables, all the boys and girls who entered the high school stood at the same starting line again. Three years later, it was not sure that the students with high scores would laugh to the end, it is not likely that the students who are at the bottom of the ranking will not come from behind. Although the rules of the game are the same, they will definitely reshuffle. Whoever laughs to the end depends on who makes the most efforts. Therefore, from now on, we must set reasonable goals for ourselves. In order to achieve our own goals, we must persevere. We should not only work hard, but also work skillfully. We should not just do it recklessly. On the way to send my little daughter to school yesterday, I told her again that the curriculum of high school is very different from that of junior high school. The depth and breadth are different, and we should learn it well at the beginning, without getting started at the beginning, the rest is no less than the Arabian Nights. Therefore, remember a word that everything is difficult at the beginning and well grasped at the beginning, then a lot of knowledge will be integrated, just like running water, one place is blocked, how can the back be unobstructed? If you haven’t learned the simple things thoroughly, how can you understand the deep content? Although the current education system and examination system have been criticized by many people, there is no better way to replace the previous one. Such system must be maintained, no matter how bad the advantages are, at least it can guarantee the maximum fairness. After finishing the junior high school entrance examination and the senior high school entrance examination and the university entrance examination, one word in the examination did not make many parents and examinees fear at the sight, but what could happen? Half a time, can there be a better way? Nowadays, children have already adapted to such big exams and exams, which are common in their growth process. After all, in the process of a person’s growth, besides the examination of book knowledge, how many other tests will he face? Therefore, examination is in the process of life, some unavoidable existence is everywhere all the time. There are many parents who send their children to school, almost every family. Living in school makes many parents feel relieved. Although children stand in front of them, they are already young adults, but when they are truly independent, they are very little. If they want to start a brand new life now, it will certainly affect many people’s nerves. From primary school to junior high school, most children have never left their parents’ sight, let alone leaving home. It is reasonable to worry about being a parent. However, children grow up year by year, it can’t always be under the wings of parents. If so, how to cultivate their independence and their spirit of responsibility? For a child, being an adult is more important than becoming a talent. Before becoming a talent, one must be an adult first. Therefore, independence and growth are the primary problems they must face. They cannot put the cart before the horse for various reasons, as parents, we should understand this point. Growth is a process. A seed can take root and sprout immediately without burying it in the soil, let alone blossom and bear fruit soon. A tree seedling will not grow rapidly just after being planted, not to mention that it can grow into a wood in two years, there will be a cycle, that is to say, there is a process. This process is very important and will directly affect the results. For children, every year they grow older, from primary school to junior high school, from junior high school to senior high school, they are all their growing experiences, and there are many stories worth sharing. Although many parents say nothing, they are very worried about their children’s ability to live in school and take care of themselves. I am not worried about this. She told her wife that the little guy could cook meals and wash clothes at ordinary times, which was not a difficult problem for her. But we ourselves, without her around, are much quiet and will undoubtedly be much deserted. But there is no perfect way. Since we know that growth is such a process, we cannot avoid this situation. Sharpening, or sharpening, is to train people better. When we were older, our parents’ feelings were absolutely the same, but they didn’t show them. But when we left home, we felt the same loneliness and worry, as full of hope. But in any case, if you want to grow, you must take such a road full of tests. Growth is a process. Only by going through one thing and one thing can we distinguish right from wrong, increase our knowledge and better understand the difficulty of success.

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Talk about amateur life, natural tastes. But I don’t like chess and card singing and dancing, but I have a special interest in writing. Because, amateur writing makes me enjoy the fun of it. Amateur writing can help me get a sense of relaxation and leisure in the space of today’s fast-paced life. It is like a glass of sake or an elegant song, which intoxicates me and comforts me. Every time I took off my exhaustion and sat at the desk to start writing when I went to an appointment, my whole body and mind were like spring breeze, like bathing in a hot spring, which was very comfortable. Amateur writing can calm me down and think about common feelings and world affairs. I can think about the changes of society; I can think about the changes of human feelings; I can think about the gains and losses of work; I can think about the lack of marriage. I use my thoughts to comprehend everything; Then I resort to words and feel that it is fast. Amateur writing can make me chew life and taste the bitterness and sweetness in it. I can use words to bloom my happiness like flowers; Vent my troubles like rivers; Pour my glory like sunshine; Pour my shame, pour out like crying blood. Many beauties of life are gathered here; Many shortcomings of life are consoled here. Amateur writing allows me to freely stretch my mind space and decorate my bitter years. I can write a poem or an essay to artistically turn the tedious world into art; Turn the cruel reality into art; Turn the monotonous days into art. As a result, my emotions have sustenance; My body and mind are happy. Amateur writing also allows me to have a platform to show myself. I can send my experience or experience to the online blog, communicate with others, communicate with friends by text, and enjoy the unlimited fun; I can also put my manuscripts into magazines or newspapers, once published, it will be circulated around the world for readers all over the world. Therefore, I like amateur writing. It enriches my life and my life.

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With the deepening of the new curriculum reform, students are becoming more and more bold in speaking in class, and the questions are becoming more and more challenging. One day I just walked into the classroom and found that the whole class had strange expressions, everyone’s eyes were focused on the direction of Li Hao. I looked at him and found that Li Hao had shaved his head. After seeing that I knew the situation, the students turned their eyes to me, it seemed that I had to say something today, so I walked up to Li Hao and patted him on the head and said, “Li Hao’s shaved head is neither unconventional nor grandstanding, but he thinks that his hair covers his wisdom. You see, his head is shining with wisdom now. If he uses wattage to describe his wisdom, I think it should be 100 wattage, the whole class burst into laughter, and this encirclement was successfully resolved. Just when I was lucky secretly, Lan Zi, who was usually in the class, stood up. Teacher, if Zhao Shuang (monitor) and Long Bing (underachievers) in the class were taken if they are all shaved, how many tiles are they? Obviously, the students were giving me a difficult problem. I wrote a sentence clearly, I didn’t comment on this, and wanted to perfunctory it, but the students were willing to give up. The whole class shouted: comment, comment, must. I glanced at longbing secretly and found that he was extremely uncomfortable, my face was extremely ugly, and I was asked for help. My heart was trembling slightly. It seemed that the student felt relieved and was going to show my ugliness. I had to break through the encirclement. I couldn’t hurt longbing, I was thinking calmly, my brain was running at a high speed, trying to recall the remaining physical knowledge in my mind. Suddenly, I came up with the concept of voltage. Wow, I finally got it, I already knew what to say. I said with a smile: Must I say it? The students shouted: of course, it is necessary. I paused and said: did the students learn overvoltage? The students said that they had learned early, I then raised my voice and said: Zhao Shuang is 110V 100W, and longbing is 220V 100W. The wisdom level is the same, but the rated voltage is somewhat different, under the condition of giving the Dragon soldier a higher voltage, it can shine the wisdom light like Zhao Shuang. Before I finished speaking, I glanced at longbing again and found a smile flashing on his stiff face. At this time, the whole class burst into applause again! My heart is also relieved!

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I don’t! I was bored with two words in my heart, crying and ran to the gate of the village, hitting the poplar with a punch, in return for numbness full of arms. Ni, give me the photo. Your dad wants it. Mother was stuck at the door of the classroom, waiting anxiously. I don’t want succession, don’t want. I cried, crying all the time ……. don’t get cheap and sell it back, your brother still can’t take it if he wants to take it. My mother’s words hurt my heart. OK, I will give it to you. I ran home, opened my treasure chest and found out the photos I was going to apply for the technical secondary school photo. Here, all for you! I still put the photo in front of my mother. You damn bitch …… I don’t care what mother says or shouts. I ran to a small bridge in front of the village, got off the bridge and squatted on the edge of the ditch: Why didn’t I take the exam? I wanted to take the exam as a lawyer. I swore to go to court for my aunt! I grabbed the weeds with both hands, and kept pulling them out until my hands hurt into my heart and I was exhausted. Ni, don’t go to school. Learn abacus with dad at home. Report to the unit in two days. So fast! I muttered in a low voice that I was always afraid of Abba and dared not contradict him. Tears flow down my cheeks. Maybe I saw my tears. Abba sighed a long sigh and shook his cigarette. Ni, dad knows you are high-hearted and wants to go to college. Your brother got married and reported to the city and called back. Your brother is still young and hasn’t graduated from primary school. He doesn’t want it, your three sisters are all married in Xinjiang, and you just catch up. Dad is old, if you don’t pick up, there will be no candidate. It is a good thing that you want to go to school. If you fail to pass the exam and have poor eyesight, what will you do in the countryside? Even if you are admitted, your father has no money to provide you to go to school. Your brother got married and built a house; Your three sisters got married, and they have done great things in succession in recent years, and borrowed a lot of debts. I gave them all the wedding gifts of your sister, without any prints left. I was afraid that others would say that I would sell my daughter, that your sisters would not live well in others …… your brother was still so young that he would start a family in the future and build a house …… Dad’s voice was a little choked. From my memory, this was the first time that my dad told me about my family. It was the first time that he told me so many words and was not so strict. Dad, stop talking. I dropped out of school. Can you let me finish the self-study tonight? All right, go ahead! Go! I cried and ran away. When I turned around, I saw my father wiping away tears. The light of self-study at night was dazzling. Teacher Hei walked around the class to monitor whether the students worked hard. I looked up at him anxiously, trying to stop his footsteps. I didn’t speak until I spoke. Two tears coagulation. Keep repeating this action after sorting out the books and breaking them up. The black teacher’s eyes stared at me from time to time. I really hope he can blame me. But, no. I am the top three students in the school, I have never been criticized by any teacher. I don’t study tonight. Why doesn’t he blame me? Then I feel better …… as soon as the self-study Bell drops, I rush out of the classroom, rush out of the campus, run to the brick kiln leading to the village entrance, and let the stars in the sky blink their confused eyes. No one can understand the depressing and low cry. It’s the first time that I feel painful in my heart …… my hands have been stabbed and swollen by Tribulus bristles, and the sticky liquid cries painful in my palm …… you dead girl, working is a good thing. Why are you so sad like sending you into a fire pit? Back home, my mother scolded me while washing me with wine. Is it a good thing? I don’t understand! My mother didn’t know that I was pretending to be more than this family. I wanted to see the sky outside the building …… less than two minutes after you rushed out of the classroom that night, the principal came to our class to find you, he said that the “I grow with young trees” you wrote won the second prize in the village. When my deskmate told me this, my heart was really sore, which made my tears come out again. The young trees in the backyard are still there, and they can still become useful. What will I become in the big vat of Society for the students who have to take part in the college entrance examination in one and a half years? This is the real thing, which happened in the severe winter when New Year’s Day came in 1990. Since then, my heart has never crossed the cold winter …… written in June, 2009

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