In my generation, Ling Shang was prosperous and had the largest population. It should be the most prosperous period of Ling Shang’s family. My parents were sincerely happy for the prosperity of Ling Shang. In fact, there are many brothers and sisters, and the pressure on parents can be imagined. But they are willing to suffer such hardships and suffer such sins. In their eyes, home is a field, a piece of land, their own children are crops growing in the field, who doesn’t want a good harvest in his field, and who doesn’t want his crops to be strong and straight and grow well? Rich people lost pigs and poor people lost books, which were inculcated by ancestors. They could be called Golden and good words. People on the ridge dared not forget these admonitions. My father often said this sentence when he was alive. Probably, this was also some spiritual support of Ling Shang’s family. Most of the fathers were fed up with the bitterness that black ink didn’t understand and didn’t know culture. Therefore, when it was time to go to school, the children of Ling Shang’s family all went to school, boys and girls were no exception; although there are some exceptions, we can’t deny the parents’ emphasis on cultural knowledge. They always hope that their children can achieve success and make some achievements when they grow up, at least, they should surpass their generation. In the big group, the income is limited, and the food is not enough to eat. One more mouth will bring more pressure. There are a lot of children, who want to eat and drink, wear and live, which one does not make people worry? Not to mention that they still need to go to school when they are older. The burden on their parents’ shoulders is getting heavier and heavier. However, seeing the lively child in front of us is like seeing hope. People in Lingshang would think like this, so they virtually formed a good atmosphere, that is, no matter how bitter or poor they are, they should send their children to school, preferring to follow their teachers, if you speak well with the school, you can’t delay your children. As long as the children have the ambition, they can go wherever they read. As the saying goes, a child’s life starts when he misses a season and a lifetime. The future is still long. Who can be sure what it will be like in the future? If you really can’t read books and lack such talent, then give up and accept your fate. I can’t restore many things and wonderful fragments, because I was born late, and I had no impression of those scenes before I remembered them. Since I could remember, all the brothers and sisters in Ling Shang had been studying in the school. When school was over, they lined up neatly and sang happily, which was really envious. Presumably at that time, seeing such a scene, the parents who were all sweating and sorrowful felt like eating honey in their hearts, which was their hope and the future of Ling Shang’s family. When I entered the school, my cousin went to high school, and my brother went to normal school. Later, my cousin also went to normal school, which could be regarded as jumping out of the agricultural gate. At that time, not to mention Ling Shang, it was a great thing in the big family, even in other families around, and it also made a good start for the children of Ling Shang. After that, there were people who went to high school one after another. At that time, it was not easy to go to high school. Every family’s parents, who don’t expect their children to be promising and outstanding. Of course, not all young students can earn a Golden job by studying, can’t enter normal school, can’t go to high school, and can’t say that they have no ambition. At that time, they can enter Normal School, after all, there are a few people who go to high school, rare. Just like the propaganda in that era, the countryside was a vast world with great achievements. As the saying goes, there were 300 to 60 lines, which were the Number One Scholar in line, planting mulberry seeds and valleys, cultivating fields and transplanting rice seedlings. They needed both talented people and few experts, there are still so many crafts that need someone to learn and inherit, no matter bricklayer, bricklayer, kiln craftsman, blacksmith, Carpenter, bamboo craftsman, etc, it has its real value. If you have learned well and learned well, it is also a means of making a living, and it can also support the family and make a fortune. In the early 1980 s, the responsibility system was implemented. The young people who were good at work were no less than those who were just like a fish in water. They suddenly became extremely alive. They saw hope, their energy and enthusiasm, and their families, put the ridge on others, dry and dye it energetically. I was still studying in high school when I came back to Lingshang to start my business and became rich with my parents. My parents lived frugally for our brothers to study, it is not so hard. Not only the elders in Lingshang, but also the elders in Wanli, all believed that I would be the first college student in Lingshang. Probably, my parents also thought so in their hearts; Unfortunately, I didn’t win honor for my family, it brought a lot of gossips to fight for their parents and didn’t achieve their dreams. Despite setbacks, my inner hope did not give up. How can there be no frustration in life? How many people can walk smoothly in this world? The young people on the ridge all tried their best to run for a good day. Although there were some disharmonious voices from time to time, they did not hinder their pace of running forward. Every family will probably be the same. There are competitions, comparisons and even fights openly and secretly. If you figure it out, it will inspire many people to clench their teeth and work hard. After a period of accumulation, the situation of people in Lingshang was greatly improved. They were no longer satisfied with the young people who planted mulberry and silkworm, and grew oil and wheat. They managed to buy tricycles, tractors, even buses and trucks, run passenger transportation and freight transportation; Those who stand on the ridge will open rice mill houses on the ridge, following many modern elements such as televisions and Radio Recorders, they will enter every household unconsciously. To quote an old man’s original words, even if you stretch your feet, you can close your eyes even if you live a few years like this. It can be seen that life has changed fundamentally. Lingshang is no longer the Lingshang which was more than ten years ago, and the family of Lingshang is not as hard as that of more than ten years ago. After getting married and having children, getting married and starting a career, the new generation sprang up like mushrooms. Seeing the wind growing, the charm of others on the ridge was full and strong. It was at this time that some people began to feel uneasy about staying on a small piece of land, walking out of the mountains and looking for their dreams outside the mountains. Moreover, there are more and more people each year, more and more young people are eager every year. They are eager to fly far away like birds on trees with their wings patted! I am one of them, so is my brother. There are also many brothers in our family. We keep everything on the ridge in mind and go far away, thousands of miles away, chasing dreams, although there are bitterness and tiredness, there are also happiness and sweetness. Although people are in other places, they never forget the people who cross the mountains and the unique charm of people who cross the mountains. To our delight, many of our brothers and many of our younger generations were admitted to universities, just like seeds scattered across the country. At present, many of them have taken part in the work, rooted in large and small cities. As I said before, as long as it was a seed, we should spare no effort to grow and show our appearance. Every young man who left the ridge was a seed scattered from the ridge. Our parents hope that we can achieve success. Similarly, we also hope that we can make a difference, and we also hope that our younger generation can be brilliant. Good afterlife is ambitious in all directions, especially in the current development and changes, we can’t just think about staying in the ridge. Although we have a lot in our hearts, we will not walk out of the hill, how do you know how big the world is outside? However, the landscape and family on the ridge will always be the most touching scenery in my heart. A long road connects hope and human feelings. Countless footprints are the endless trudge in this life.

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It’s the weekend again, because the school will be the examination room for civil servant examination and interview tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, so today all students do not study at night. At dinner, my son told me: Mom, I don’t want to do my homework any more. Don’t want to do homework, what do you want to do? My son didn’t say anything when he heard my question. There is still more than one month left, and you have to try your best to Sprint. I said, it’s not playing games to pass the high school exam well. If you can reach the score, we will save tens of thousands of yuan. But if you pass the exam a little less, the school will not accept it even if you hold a lot of money, at that time, you felt uncomfortable. If you are admitted to the northern suburb, we will buy a car. Buy a car? My son looked at me doubtfully. Yeah! Don’t you envy others who have cars? It is convenient to catch a bus every day if you own a car! The bowl and chopsticks were still on the table. I asked my son: Do you think there is any hope for the examination in the northern suburb now? Great position. My son’s voice was very loud, and his face showed a steady victory. I remember I asked him before the model, what if he couldn’t pass the northern suburb? At that time, he said: there is no possibility of failing to pass the exam. Looking at him leaning against the bed, I said to him: Today I asked your teacher how did you perform at school. The head teacher said that you are doing well in all aspects. If the teacher thinks so highly of you, then you should also have a requirement for yourself to do better. I said, the northern suburb was our initial goal, and now we should aim at No. 1 Middle School. The management of No. 1 Middle School is strict, and the school facilities are much better than those in the northern suburb. I saw my son showing a look of yearning. It turned out that you and Xi Xi were in the same school when they were in high school. I mentioned the past. Last time when the provincial middle school, No. 1 Middle School and northern suburb recruited independently, the head teacher of Xixi asked Xixi to apply for the provincial middle school, but Xixi only wanted to go to No. 1 Middle School. This is what grandma Xi said in our house. Why? Son Asked. It is said that the provincial management is broad and not as strict as that of the first middle school. For students with high consciousness, the provincial management has relatively potential for development, but for students who are not self-conscious, it will not work, or one solid. If you can really enter No. 1 Middle School, you will be happy with 100,000 points. There was a smile on my son’s face, and his eyes were very glorious. This was the most impressive time to see him since he was in high school. This semester, due to the good diet every day, my son’s face is rosy and he has gained a lot of weight. With his height of 1.8 meters, he looks really handsome. Looking at my son’s handsome face, I recalled the scene when he was born. I remember that doctor Huang said he was a beautiful baby and brought her grandson to see him. I couldn’t help saying: Chen Fei, how handsome! Go, Go, go, Mom, you are so annoying! My son waved to me. You need to read others’ full-Mark compositions in Chinese. Only by writing the compositions well can you improve. 16 points will be deducted for a model composition. For example, it will be enough for you to deduct 8 points at most in your composition, which will raise your Chinese scores a lot. English only needs to memorize words, phrases and sentence patterns skillfully, and it must take more time. I never forget to remind my son. Well, my son said yes. Today, I really learned about my son’s study in school from the head teacher, but the head teacher didn’t really say that his son is good in all aspects. Just reply OK. I haven’t known the situation with the teacher since the first model. Sometimes I will see the head teacher when I pick up my son after the night self-study, but the time is too late. The teachers in the graduating class were busy and laborious enough, so it was inconvenient to delay the teacher’s rest time, so they just said hello. I remember such a story, and I have told it to students many times: When my son was in kindergarten, it was the first time that my mother went to hold a parent-teacher meeting. The teacher said to my mother, “Your son has hyperactivity, so he can’t stay in the position for a minute with so many students in the whole class. Mother went home with tears all the way, and said to her son: today the teacher praised you, saying that you can sit in the seat for three minutes now. My son was very good at dinner that day. From primary school to junior high school, every time a parent-teacher meeting is held, the son’s name is always pointed by the teacher among the last few students in the class. And every time after the parent-teacher meeting, mother always said to her son: Today, the teacher praised you again, saying that you are better than someone in the class. My son also studied hard with the encouragement of his mother. After entering a parent-teacher meeting in grade 3, my mother had been waiting for the teacher to report her son’s name, but she didn’t hear her son’s name until the meeting was over. Mother thought that the teacher missed his son’s name, so she went to ask the teacher. The teacher said, “with your son’s current grades, there is no problem to take an ordinary high school. After hearing this, my mother was very happy and came back and said to her son: The teacher said, with your current grades, as long as you work harder, it will be no problem to take the key high school. After entering high school, my son studied harder. My mother had a strong feeling that his son could get a good university. At last, my son got the admission notice from Tsinghua University. My son cried, Mom. I knew I was stupid. It was you who encouraged me all the time that made me achieve today’s results. Everyone needs to be recognized by others, and children are no exception. Once an expert said: you need to find out ten to twenty advantages of children every day. Parents who cannot find out the advantages of children are not good parents. We hope that children will develop in a good direction, and what parents say will have directivity. If you often say to the child that he is stupid and lazy, after a long time, the clever and diligent child will become stupid and lazy. Because in children’s eyes, even if you do well, you will be criticized. It is better not to do it. As time passes, it will become what you said. There is an example like this: a little boy behaves well in his grandmother’s house, is obedient and loves cleanness, but in his own home, he becomes totally different, dirty, naughty and swearing. The reason was that when I came to grandma’s house, Grandma always praised him as such a sensible and clever child. I always said that I couldn’t find such a good child, so how could I dislike him? So he behaved well in his grandmother’s house. However, when she came back to her home, Grandma always accused him of this bad, that bad, saying that she had never seen such a bad child like him, so that he behaved quite annoying at home. Therefore, if you want your children to be good, as parents, you should encourage them to be good. I remember that there was an experiment: Scientists randomly pointed at some students in a school and said to them: you people are all promising in the future. I also told the teachers that what an excellent teacher you are, and what an excellent student you are. Since then, those students and teachers have been imagining how excellent they are, and they have been strict with themselves no matter what they do. Many years later, these students have been outstanding one by one. Back to those years, these students and teachers designated by scientists were just random. After understanding, some students were even considered as poor students by teachers before. All this shows that positive encouragement is very important. My son still said: Mom, I don’t want to do my homework anymore. I looked at the time, and just after, I said: do not do homework so early, do you want to leave all your homework until tomorrow? I am so busy tomorrow. I always came to accompany you, at least you have to live up to me? At least it should be like self-study at school! My son stopped talking and took out his homework and started to do it. Because he already had a clear goal in his heart.

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