At five o’clock in the morning, a rush Bell woke me up from my dream. It was my son who called from the Provincial Maternal and Child Hospital: Liangliang has entered the delivery room and is about to give birth. Come here! My daughter-in-law is going to give birth, which is a big deal in our common family. My wife and I, the daughter who came home to visit relatives, took a taxi to the hospital immediately. Within 20 minutes, I arrived at the gate of the delivery room. At this time, daughter-in-law has been into the delivery room, daughter-and son in delivery room outside wait. After a few greetings, we also waited outside the door. The doctor said it was natural labor, but we waited from five o’clock to twelve o’clock, but there was no change. We are all anxious. The mother-in-law was even more impatient. She contacted the nurse, put on protective clothes and went into the delivery room. Slip-understanding. It turned out that the child was too big to be born. Seven or eight doctors did all they could to help. No wonder they waited for such a long time. I discussed with my wife and got the consent of my mother and son, then I would have a caesarean section! I told the doctor: adults first, children second, hope to ensure the safety of mother and child. So, half past twelve, daughter-in-law were pushed to 12 floor operating room emergency Cesare. At 01:12 P.M., several loud cries of babies came out of the operating room. A nurse came out to report. I gave birth to a baby girl, seven Jin, two Liang, 52cm, and the mother and son are safe. My son was a little disappointed, because many people told him before that he would be a boy, and even bet with the escort of the ward that if he was not a man, he would compensate you two thousand yuan. Obviously, he was not well prepared. My wife and I have discussed in advance that it doesn’t matter whether it is a man or a woman. They are all our grandchildren, and they all want them. So I didn’t feel disappointed like my son. At about two o’clock, the child was carried out, saying that it was going to heat up. After placing the daughter-in-law, we rushed to the house next to the operating room immediately and saw the girl being put in a temperature box. She is about one and a half feet long, with big head, long legs, shiny black hair and white skin. Head and nose are like son, others are like daughter-in-law. Seeing us coming, the baby opened his eyes and looked at us unexpectedly. Then, hands and feet began to move. Waving hands and kicking legs, the limbs began to stretch, which was really a dance. Maybe she was not used to the strange world that had just arrived. The girl began to cry with a loud voice. We could hear it through the temperature box. After a while, she began to suck her little hand into her mouth, and then stopped crying. The nurse said that the girl was very clever and knew she was going to eat in half an hour. Standing beside the temperature box, I immediately realized that piajie, a famous Swiss child psychologist, was right. When a natural person comes to the world, one is crying because he is not used to this new environment; The other is sucking, this is the first instinctive reaction of human beings, and all subsequent behaviors are based on this. At 6:30 on July 28th, sunny granddaughter was born. What’s the name? I remembered that my daughter-in-law said earlier that she had a dream that an animal she had never seen was chasing her. When she woke up, she opened the Confucius holy relics on the bookshelf, pointed at an animal in the section of Kylin jade book when Confucius was born, and said: it is it! I have a look, isn’t this the mascot Kylin in Chinese traditional culture? Really prosperous new year. I thought to myself, well, when the child’s name is available, let’s call it Liu Jiaqi or Liu Mengqi! The nickname is Qiqi. On July 28th, I wrote a supplementary note to my family, whose family name is Liu. At noon on July 23th, she was busy with travel and took the train for two days and two nights to Xi’an from Korla city in Xinjiang, which was really sincere. Before that, relatives sent their sons and daughters-in-law from Sinkiang to them cotton-padded clothes, cotton trousers, small bedding, bracelets, silver medals and other things that the children would wear, which were a large package. My son took it back from the post office yesterday and set up a bed. My wife and I were deeply touched. Poor parents all over the world, needles and threads pinned the old man’s true feelings for children. 23 ri A to Xi’an, daughter-would go and see daughter-in-law. I didn’t see her until 24th because I was busy with the decoration of the new house (because the school had a limited time limit and it was summer vacation again), and took her in-laws home for a small stay. I originally planned to let her rest for a few days and go, as a result, my mother-in-law only stayed for one night, and went to the hospital early the next day. She was still deeply in love with her mother and daughter! 27 ri daughter-in-law production day, baby not out, daughter-in-law inside pain cried daughter-in outside, edge joint phone cry. The scene was really unforgettable. When Qi Qi grows up, he should be grateful: it is not easy for your mother to give birth to you, and the sincerity of your grandmother can never be forgotten. Filial piety to the elderly should be the tradition of our nation, and also the meaning of the topic of our family’s loyalty and filial piety, cultivating and reading the family precepts. Remember. 7 yue 29 ri 7:00 Wednesday fine old woman daughter-in-law lovers often say, old woman daughter-in-law relation bad handling. But in our family, this rule seems not to be tenable. The relationship between my wife and my daughter-in-law is very harmonious and harmonious. This makes me very happy. My wife is an honest, virtuous and diligent woman. I have been married to each other for almost 40 years. Although Yi’s education level is not high, he graduated from senior high school and has a rough literacy. However, it is reasonable and has a high IQ. The top leaders at home and abroad handle everything properly, which is a very important reason why I can still get to this point today. Therefore, I always think that the tiny achievements I have made should be half of her contribution. My daughter-in-law is also quite sensible. Before marriage, when she was still a graduate student, she often went to the art building of the school to get along with her wife. In 2006, I went to Hangzhou for a meeting with my wife. After knowing this, my daughter-in-law immediately bought a suitable coat for her wife. My wife is very happy, she has been wearing it all the time, and she has not left her body even when visiting and taking photos in Hangzhou. In 2007, I suffered from pancreatitis and was hospitalized for 50 days. My daughter-in-law often visited me. What moved me in particular was that when she saw her wife accompanying her, she didn’t have a suitable back chair, so she bought a chair with back for Yi to sit (a student who was in school could think, it is really hard to do this), avoiding the sufferings of Yi’s skin and flesh. Nowadays, there are not many young people who can show filial piety and care for the old, but there are more and more people who eat the old. The good national tradition is gradually losing, which makes people sad! It is rare for my daughter-in-law to have filial piety, respect the old and care for others. Therefore, when she talked with her son about friends, my wife and I tried our best to promote them. I observed that the relationship between my wife and my daughter-in-law was well handled. Once I went home to take a car, the driver thought they were mother and daughter, which was also true. My wife did regard her daughter-in-law as a daughter, because firstly, her biological daughter married far away to Guangdong (this was the children’s own choice), and her daughter-in-law made up for this emotional blank; second, it is easy to satisfy my wife. She often said that if others respect me a Chi, I will respect others a Chi; If people respect me and value me, I will get along with anyone sincerely. Good! If you respect others, you will always respect them. The reason why we never leave for 40 years is probably that this principle of life is at work. My wife usually cares about her daughter-in-law, and changes the way to cook for her daughter-in-law to change the taste. I often joke with Yi: I am eat delicious food with my daughter-in-law. My wife was very diligent, and she could knit sweaters and woolen trousers. She made two big bags of new clothes and trousers for the children, and packed up a large pile of diapers alone. Yesterday, I heard from her that she wiped her daughter-in-law and changed her shorts. I said, this is our job and we should do it. People should exchange their hearts with others, treat others with sincerity, and do not deal with bad interpersonal relationships. This is my conclusion from the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in our family. I am willing to share it with many netizens. The following is recorded by children day by day, which can also be counted as a document!

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Eastern Hebei mainly includes Tangshan, Hebei, Qinhuangdao, counties in northern Langfang, Ninghe, Baodi and Jixian in northern Tianjin, Tongzhou, Shunyi, Pinggu and Miyun in counties in eastern Beijing, the main body is all counties and districts in Tangshan city. Eastern Hebei is a very unique region, and its most prominent feature is interlacing. In history, it used to be the transition of Central Plains and the Great Wall, as well as the transition from North China to Northeast China, the transition from mountainous areas to Plains, and the crossing of mountains and seas. Nowadays, it has become the interlaced area of Beijing, Tianjin and Tang Dynasties. Politics, economy and culture are all integrated with each other, but there are also differences. The mountains and rivers and the scenery here are unique. In terms of culture, Jidong culture is profound, unique and has a long influence, which can find the intersection in different administrative regions nowadays. Jidong Township memory (I) mother river Jidong is located in warm temperate zone with four distinct seasons and abundant rainfall. Nowadays, due to the large population and dense industry, Jidong has become one of the most serious water shortage areas in the country. However, there are not many rivers flowing through, hundreds of which are large and small, and the larger ones are the return River, Ji Canal, Qing river, etc. In ancient times, cities were built by Rivers. Rivers nurtured human beings and civilization. All the four ancient civilizations we know are related to a big river, which are called Mother River. The mother river in eastern Hebei is undoubtedly Luan River. Luanhe River, known as moist water in ancient times, originates from the northern foot of Bayan gultu Mountain in Zhangjiakou city and flows north into Inner Mongolia autonomous region. This section is called Lightning River. Later, he made a sharp turn to the southeast and entered the northeast of Hebei province. He kept flowing into Bohai Sea to the southeast, with a total length of 885 kilometers. Li Daoyuan once mentioned in “Notes on the classic of water” that he was moistening water. The Luanhe River actually flows through the east of Hebei is only over 300 kilometers, but in the east of Hebei, it winds back and wandered into the sea, bringing fertile land and abundant water resources to the east of Hebei, and even breeds the profound culture of the East of Hebei. In the north of Tangshan city, there is a place called Panjiakou, which is the beginning of Luanhe River in eastern Hebei. This place is also the boundary of guansai in history, where the famous Great Wall spans the mountains. The Luanhe River here passes through the canyon. The water flows fast and is as clear as Jade. Small villages are scattered at the foot of the mountain on both sides of the river. Most of the houses in the small village are spire tile houses, which are made of stone and built on the hillside. Some of them live in clusters, and some of them occupy a corner. Around the 1990 s, we took a boat up the river with the aim of Panjiakou, which was already a reservoir. We took a medium-sized cruise ship, because we had been sailing in the reservoir area (this is a river reservoir). The water looked deep, but it was relatively calm. The green water floated snow-white water on both sides of the ship, we sat firmly on the bow of the boat and traveled around the green mountains on both sides of the river. It seemed that in the boat, the mountains on both sides were verdant, and there was an obvious boundary half a meter above the water surface, There were white and brown rocks off the line. The Boatman said that this was the water level line during the flood period a few days ago. It seemed that the river was quite rich. After walking for about an hour, we leaned on the shore. This was the northern end of the reservoir, which could be regarded as the junction with the river. We stepped on the cobblestones all over the ground, with white spray splashing beside us, which was quite magnificent. Soon we turned around a small mountain and saw a small village, which is exactly the place we are looking for today. In fact, there are only a dozen high and low houses in the village, which are typical stone tile houses here. I don’t know how many cobblestones are used around the house to form a courtyard, where green trees interlaced. After a while, a big yellow dog ran out of a yard with two people standing behind. This is also the only two people in this village that we are going to find a couple today. It turned out that this village was moved several years ago because of the reservoir construction. In other counties hundreds of miles away, this couple of 40-year-old couples couldn’t get away from their homeland and ran back again, so I planted a few rows of millet behind the house, raised a pig, went fishing in the river at ordinary times, and could also lay down the chestnut on the tree to sell after autumn. Speaking of going out, they were a little silent. They had to hold the boat for three hours. Some things needed to be bought. The children also went to school with relatives, so they had to go out. But speaking of life here, The couple smiled happily. It’s good in the mountains and by the river. They gave us this year’s chestnut, walnut, pickled meat made by themselves, tofu made by themselves, corn and red pepper hanging on the eaves, beans and millet in front of the House, colorful, picturesque. It was just that the sound was so loud at night when the water was rising. It would be better if they didn’t move the village. The old man told stories, the man picked yam and the woman weaved fish nets. However, they were talking with strong mountain accent. Pan Jiakou was so quiet and leisurely that he would not go further. Luanzhou is another scene. Luanzhou is also called ancient Luanzhou, because it is the cultural source of the whole eastern Hebei. Although it is now prosperous, its breath is still constant. When you come to the ancient town, you can first feel the bustle here. The streets and streets of the town are scattered for more than ten miles. The houses are mainly made of green bricks, and the roofs are not spire. There is a local saying of Beijing Pingzhi. But there are mostly two bluestone at the door, which are called zhenmen stone. The town is two miles away from the river. It has a long history and developed industry and commerce. There are hundreds of years old shops, restaurants and a general’s mansion which is said to have lived in the generals of Ming Dynasty. Every festival, there used to be a song, that is, Pingxi, and there were shadow puppets and drum books. The river here is very quiet, and the river channel becomes wider. In this year, the river water is less and less. Most of the broad riverbed was planted with poplar. There is an open space in the forest. In the morning, old people will take diabolo and fans to exercise. When the sun rises, the smoke of kitchen smoke rises from the Cross Houses. Soon, the street becomes lively. There are many early stalls on both sides of the street, including pancake fruit, soybean milk, fried cakes and everything, some people began to sell local agricultural products. Peanuts are the most common. Because the land here is sandy and suitable for the growth of peanuts, the peanuts here are also very delicious, with full seeds, crisp and sweet. In a river beside the town, there is a railway bridge which has been in disrepair for a long time. It was designed and built by Zhan Tianyou at that time and is also the oldest railway bridge in China. Although it is too narrow, it has been replaced by the new bridge nearby, but it was well preserved and became a new witness of the ancient Luanzhou. Today’s small town is still quiet, but the low bungalows and buildings are intermingled from time to time. One after another green and black asphalt roads lead to the Riverside. The ancient city of Luanzhou has become a well-known place for leisure and entertainment, outsiders like to ride on the unique donkey cart in Luanzhou most. In the bumping all the way, in the sound of bells, through the streets and lanes, they can feel the simplicity and reality. When the lights are on, the Luanhe River is gurgling slowly, the Red Lantern shines on half of the river, and the warm music flows with the river. Go down along the river and keep walking until the end is the Bohai Sea. Here is the famous estuary of Luanhe River. The estuary is wide with white sand stretching. The two sides are smooth and fertile land. When summer comes, there will be Red Sorghum, fragrance of rice and flowers, and beautiful scenery in desperation. The villages here are gradually rare. Wherever you see the lush trees, it must be a small village. When you approach it, you cannot see its appearance, because the whole village will be surrounded by dense reeds, there is a lot of water here, and the river forks are horizontal and horizontal. Where there is water, there will be reeds, where there are reeds, where there will be birds, where there will be fish and shrimps. This is the real land of fish and rice. There are endless rice planted near the village. After a few miles, you can go out to sea to fish. All the villagers here have good water quality. Every family has a small wooden boat. When the tide drops, they drive up the boat and put down their homemade leather raft (abandoned tires), throw a very unique hanging (a kind of fishing net), and after a while, you can net up and harvest, barracuda, Big Head fish, just like sticking on the net, jumping desperately, and finally can’t escape, by fishermen off. This is a paradise for delicious food. You don’t need to put much oil when cooking fish in a big pot. The taste will be so fresh that it will kill you. In the dead of night, the beautiful coastal area of eastern Hebei seemed to have no rest. The waves kissed the wooden boat gently and shook rhythmically. The fishermen who returned from the sea were sleeping soundly in the small cabin mixed with kerosene and fishy smell. Not far away, the light in the small village that I occasionally saw was weak, where there were peasant women waiting for men to go home. The beautiful Luan River has been flowing quietly for thousands of years. With her silence and tolerance, it breeds plains, trees, fields, even the sea, and thousands of people, weaving a simple and vivid, A vibrant dream.

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