I have always used Jane to face the world. But after several frustrations, I found that the world is really simple instead of you. And how should we face the world? Chuang-Tzu’s entry into the world is externalized but not internalized, which is what we need to learn. The so-called internalisation means that when we face ourselves, we should be true and good, and we should stick to ourselves. And externalization? When facing this world, we should learn to be flexible and adapt. Wise people all say that adapting to the strong is a high EQ! But what is EQ? In Baidu entry, there are too many knowledge points about eq. In fact, I think the final point of EQ is: in this world, we should be able to see, listen, think, say and come! What is watching, listening and thinking? I am understood from two aspects. One is cognition. We use our eyes to observe the characteristics of things and things, and our ears to listen to the sounds of things and things. Then analyze and find the root of things and things, and when facing things and things, we can correctly understand them and find the answer to deal with them. For example, some of us regard the monks in the arena as gods, because they seem to know your fate, know your luck, and can help you with good luck and disaster. To say they all proficient in numerology? But every word makes you have to believe it. The fact is that they are better at observing. They can know the weight of things in your eyes and see what kind of things you belong to through your clothes and behaviors. They are better at listening, they will break the core formula that you need to read recently through what you said. As follows: starting to see the purpose of coming, don’t hesitate to ask the sky to ask the pursuit of expensive, ask the sky to ask the sky to worry eight questions seven questions, happy people want to rely on seven expensive, complaining people are actually seven sorrow seven questions eight questions, if there is nothing wrong with it, it is inevitable that the scholars will ask about the future, and the students will ask about it repeatedly for the recent ancient times, which will definitely lack it; Frequently ask about the reasons, among which there must be monks who are from a lofty position and do not forget, we can understand that they are not really superior through the pithy formula in the mountain forest, but their cognition is higher than ours through training. The second is learning, which is to improve ourselves by observing how others do things, listening to how others speak and thinking about why they want to do so, and saying these words, turn others’ methods into their own. And what is the saying that something will happen? That is the behavior made through cognition. Will say, that is to say appropriate words to different people on different occasions. In fact, this is not an easy thing. In this world, what we face more is people’s hearts. When facing people’s hearts, what we should say, how to do, what to say and what to do are the places we should practice. Once, the teacher said: people have two eyes, two ears and one mouth, which is to let us see more, listen more and speak less. Our ancestors also taught us to be sensitive and silent. In fact, it is equally important for us! In interpersonal communication, if you don’t say anything, no one will know your thoughts. Communication is the most important thing in communication, but communication needs to be talked about. Therefore, we should speak boldly, but what we need to learn is to be good at speaking, that is to say, art. Maybe sometimes it is called duplicity, which will violate the rules. But this should be the externalization as Chuang Tzu said, the so-called survival of the fittest. In order to let myself exist in this world, I need to improve my eq. I need to learn how to observe, how to recognize, how to speak and how to do things. What I need to do next is to practice! It is the method of how to do things. Finally, I said to myself: improve EQ, deal with things, externalize but not internalize 2013/12/18

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From then on, a long and endless road began. We will also share weal and woe, help each other and stay together.

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I want to be a doctor when I grow up. Treat patients carefully and be serious. Some patients will not be able to afford the medical expenses. I will help them so that they can live happily and be healthy. I want to be a policeman when I grow up. PATROL EVERYWHERE, catch thieves and fight against injustice. I will practice kung fu well without real swords and guns, but I need to be upright and make people around me feel at ease. I want to be a scientist when I grow up. In order to create something that can be of great help to people, we should use our brains well and do our best to benefit mankind by ourselves. I want to become a politician when I grow up. Just like Grandpa Zhou Enlai, he served the common people. He was integrated with people, sharing hardships and sufferings, just like a great warrior. As long as I eat and live, I won’t let them be hungry and frozen. I want to be a food inspector when I grow up. All unqualified and unhealthy food should be returned, and they will never be allowed to enter people’s stomachs. I want to be a philanthropist when I grow up. We need to help a lot of people. If there is no family, we need to build houses for them. If there is nothing to eat, we need to send them to them. If no one wants children, we need to give them the love of their parents.. I want to be a lot of people when I grow up, but I only have one person, and I have no time to become so many people. Moreover, I only have one person and can’t help so many people. I don’t know what to do, I don’t know which one to do.. If this is a child’s worry, I don’t know whether this is his sorrow or the sorrow of this society. It is not true that you should feel lucky, but how far can it be from such an event?

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Social contact is a college question, but now I want to talk about my views on respect. When it comes to respect, it will naturally be inseparable from the memory of being respected. In fact, many people know whether they are respected or respected, but they are often ignored in social communication. I have my own experience and thoughts about this. In my opinion, no matter where you are, how high your status is and how powerful you are, you should always pay attention to respecting others. I had no concept of social relations before. I am thinking that it is just to maintain the relationship between people, just casually. So I did think so at that time, and I did not pay any attention to its thoughts in my life. As a result, I got along with everyone in a mess. Now when I think about it, I think one of its root causes is that I don’t understand the concept of respect. Therefore, because I take it for granted to treat others in my own way, I will receive corresponding responses. I felt very uncomfortable at that time. I think it should be intimate to get along with two people. I can call you whatever I want. But I didn’t think about the consequences. But when others call you in the same way, they feel very uncomfortable. That is to say, I can’t stand using my own way on myself. So later I found that respect is a great knowledge. If you do not take care of it, it will bring you a lot of troubles and worries. Sometimes I think about how to achieve the problem that makes people feel that they respect him. Because I often think about it, I have some of my own practices. If two people meet each other, there must be a proper formal appellation. Then you must do things straight away and treat each other reasonably according to the rules. Then there are two people who have known each other for a long time. They have to communicate with each other to change their original habits of dealing with each other. Of course, in essence, we still need to do things in a proper manner. Just a little casual on the surface, a little intimate. But as long as you are good at interpersonal relationships, you will find two friends who have good relationships. The harmonious cycle of their relationships is definitely related to the fundamental principles of their work. And this principle is the rule. Everlasting universal rules. And the good interpersonal relationship between the two does not mean that there has been no waves. Only when we stick to the principle of right and wrong can there be friction. Of course, it is reasonable to think about each other’s actions afterwards, so the original friendship will be restored soon. In fact, after all, there are only a few things between people. It is nothing more than that some small interest relationships need to be handled properly. There is almost nothing else. But considering these, I still want to say that it is very difficult to respect others. In life, many people pay attention to respecting others, but the interpersonal relationship of many people is very bad. I think there are many elements in it. For example, his EQ is high and low. There is also the problem of using and scheduling his expressions. There is also the problem of his language expression ability. Anyway a lot a lot. What I want to say is to respect others. Some people say that I AM has been respecting him. But he is very dissatisfied with me. Why? There are also many elements in it. But now I just want to talk about one aspect. That is, you respect others in your own way. Of course, because you don’t care about others’ thoughts, most of them are not satisfied. I conceived an example of this. For example, a Hui nationality comes to a Han nationality family as a guest. If the Han people didn’t know that he was a Hui nationality, they would treat him with pork. If there was trouble, they would communicate with each other, and maybe they would get the understanding of the Hui nationality. Of course, if you know, if you still do this, there will be many consequences. If there were more ethnic groups than Han people at the dinner table last time, then you knew that you still needed to do so. I think an indoor boxing was inevitable. If there are few Hui people, you also know that they are Hui people. You still don’t pay attention to these, and if you put pork food on it, the consequences will be bad. But he just dared not to speak out. Even at that time, you didn’t do extreme behavior, but you will learn a lesson if you go to associate with him another day. In fact, what I want to say is that respecting others can be done well on the basis of understanding others. If you respect others intentionally, but others don’t think you respect them, then such respect is a failure. Only after we understand each other, and at the same time we reach a consensus, can we finish it. Otherwise hard. Just like what I just said. Han love to eat pork. Therefore, he cannot be left on the table on festivals and festivals. As a result, Hui people came from your family. He knows that you know that he is a Hui nationality. But you still make him pork food. That will definitely cause serious consequences. But you will want to say that the Hui people are human, so are the Han people. If we can eat pork, you will not suffer losses. Therefore, based on this kind of psychology, if you contact with Hui people, I think you will never get along well with him. Therefore, I invited the god of protection of all harmonious interpersonal relationships to respect, which means that everyone knows the word respect, but there are too few people who respect others in life. Of course, it is really difficult to respect others. I saw a news on the Internet that a cleaner had swept away the unfinished mineral water of a roadside person, so he fought. You see, this is an example of disrespecting others. He sat there with a bottle of water beside him, and you were not blind. Sweep it away for no reason, you see you are beaten! Of course, this not only reflects the issue of respect. It also reflects the problem of tolerance in interpersonal communication. I don’t think there will be any consequence of fighting if this thing is put on me. In fact, social contact is very complicated and simple. It is really not easy to understand it. But as a person, it is impossible to avoid social problems. I think I just want to talk about my own opinion. Most people in the society can handle the relationship well. So I say they are all sociologists. However, as a person who occasionally wants to talk about it, I will inevitably have shortcomings. Therefore, I said the above is for reference only. Please also invite Wenyou Haihan!

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The night was deep and the moon was in the sky. From time to time, bullfrogs could be heard in the field, adding a little lively atmosphere to the quiet night.

Life can be settled, and life can also be particular about. A good man is willing to settle down and pay attention to the truth of life. Since we come to this world full of worldly wisdom, we must live bravely, live our own characteristics and live our own way, live out your own charm.

Life is not for oneself at all. If a person lives for himself, then it is too selfish. When a person is born, he has already shouldered the mission of serving the society. The narrow mind makes people feel painful and uneasy. Only open your mind and tolerate others can you gradually find the happiness of life. The stage is as big as your heart is. With your own stage, you can show your colorful dancing and charm to your heart. The same is true on the stage of life. To do what you want to do and strive to fulfill your dream is to realize your own value without paying attention to others’ accusations, strive for a goal that I think is meaningful, with a persistent and Eternal Heart at the same time.

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