He is a 15-year-old boy and a junior high school student. I will call him Xiao He for the time being. It Was grandma who brought him here. The relationship between him and his parents is very tense. It can be said that everything is against his parents. For example, when his parents paid him for tutoring, he didn’t go. His parents thought his foundation was too poor and he was hopeless. When they didn’t want him to tutor, he insisted on tutoring. In fact, he didn’t really want to tutor, but to waste his parents’ money to make them uncomfortable. My child’s mother told me that parents also have certain responsibilities when this happens. There was once a year when their husband and wife didn’t care about their children because of their anger, and let it go. When I found that my children often play games, surf the Internet, yell at parents, and fail in exams, I thought that I should discipline my children well. But when the child really wanted to take care of it, he didn’t let it go and couldn’t control it at all. Parents don’t listen to what they say and hate their parents. I know this is the typical manifestation of rebellion. The second grade of junior high school is a crucial and dangerous year for students. Why do you say so? It can be analyzed from two aspects. In terms of learning, the most important foundation of this year is the year of polarization. From the aspect of physical and mental health: This year is the beginning of youth, which is easy to rebel. The first aspect: if students study hard, have proper methods and strong interests, they may make great progress. It will lay a solid foundation for junior three learning and senior high school learning in the future, and be able to smoothly enter senior high school to continue learning. If students don’t study hard, Improper learning methods, or because I don’t like the teacher’s dislike of learning, or because my family is unstable and insecure, I am worried all day long. If I have no mind to study, I may unfortunately become a poor student in polarization and have many difficulties in learning in the future. Some students will stop studying and go out to work to make a living because they feel that going to school is boring; Some students may continue to stay in school and live a hard life, eager to finish class and eager to finish school. In order to show their sense of achievement, they may surf the internet, play games, or wander around in groups, gradually becoming problematic teenagers. On the other hand, students in grade two of junior high school are in the early youth. They want to show both maturity and naivety, love beauty and be lazy. They want to be respected by others, and they may be blind and arrogant to dislike others. Some people call the age of 13 and 19 as the hatred period of teenagers. At this time, if teachers and parents have proper ways and methods, children may successfully spend their physical and mental health. If teachers or parents don’t understand this kind of psychology and have outdated ideas, adopting relatively rude methods may hurt children’s self-esteem and arouse their antipathy. If not, do a few mischievous things to revenge. If not, hate the teacher, hate the parents, do not learn the subjects taught by the teacher, fight against the parents, waste their money, and do everything possible to torture parents, let them sad. They may be late when they wake up, and may have missed the prime time of school. Are they the only ones who regret at that time? Never, parents will feel guilty for a long time! Through communication, I know the reason why he hates his parents: for a period of time, his parents divorced, often fought and quarreled regardless of him, and almost at the same time said no to him, which made him very scared, I worry all day long that what will I do if my parents divorce me? I was distracted in class, and I couldn’t concentrate my energy, so I was worried. Therefore, the psychology has changed like this: I am afraid that no one will ___ want to commit suicide ___ hate my parents. Like (prose editor: Di Mo Chengshang) the 30th year of my WeChat era

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