I have read a lot of books about how to educate children during this period, and also read a lot of posts about this on the internet. I feel that books and posts are particularly good and worth learning, I also have a lot of feelings and self-accusation. Good Mom, what time have I done? A good mother does not blindly favor her children, nor is it strict enough to have a generation gap, but should give him all-round education, let him grow up healthily and happily on the premise of being friends with himself. It’s very good, right? But I failed. I have done a lot of things, and I can always think of better ways and solutions afterwards. I always regret it. I don’t have so much patience, before doing things, I always remind myself that I must endure my temper, communicate with my child well and guide him well. But when I saw that he was disobedient, I couldn’t help getting angry. The fire was over and I regretted, late! In fact, from the perspective of children, maybe they have nothing wrong with themselves, but we judge the right and wrong of children with our own ideas. I have seen such a post on the Internet: travel is more important than class health is more important than sports subjective opinion is more important than obedience imagination is more important than knowledge interest is more important than achievement growth is more important than winning or losing independence is more important than beauty is more important than kindness is more important than right and wrong thinking is more important how do we require children to do these? I didn’t do it, and even seriously said that almost every one of my requirements for children was reversed. Now I am afraid that one of them is worthy of such a young child. Every child is really pitiful. Since they came to this world involuntarily, they have been doing things that they may not like or even hate, but they have no way, they may not understand what you are talking about at all, but he will still be obedient, and he made a small mistake, a small failure to do what you said, but it will draw your rage. The poor child has grown up and we have never heard of his own ideas and opinions. He is not allowed to do this and he is not allowed to do that. If something is broken accidentally, we may scold him loudly why he was so careless, but if we were careless, we would find hundreds of reasons to comfort ourselves. I failed. I don’t know how much I can change, but I want to work hard to be a better mother. Writing these is to remind yourself that it can not always bring harm to the child’s young heart. If more harm is done, scars will be left, which can never be wiped out. Sorry for my child, mom will definitely cheer up!

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