Dear 21-year-old self: Hello, I suddenly want to write a letter to you, either because of something else, or because I can’t help it for a moment. I wrote a letter to you for the first time, and I didn’t feel any anxiety, nor did I feel dizzy, disgusting, and so on. The sky was still so blue, and the white clouds were still very elegant, however, the winter wind gradually aggravated the speed of invasion to the north, but my mind was still very clear. Before writing, I want to say hello to you. First of all, I have to remind you that I am written to you with critical spirit, so that you can adjust the fall and blood pressure of your mind, and don’t be fainted by Thunder at half time, then it’s really not fun. There is no need to say more nonsense. Ah, I am not talking about you. You see, you are 21 years old and still doing nothing all day long. Buddy, I really feel sorry for you and sad. As a bosom friend who knows you best and understands you best, it is absolutely unique in the world. My friends feel very proud and proud, so they have the obligation to remind you: Ah, it is already 21 people, what else do you want? Don’t pretend to be ignorant and pitiful all day long, just think that someone will sympathize with you, don’t do daydreaming anymore, let alone now it is night, how can there be so many daydreams for you to do, daydream also needs time, isn’t it? There is no need to hide the age of 21 people. 21 is 21. It’s no big deal. When I was a child, you said that you wanted to grow up very much. Now it’s OK. It’s already 21 years old. Isn’t it right to fulfill your childhood dream? Oh, what’s your attitude now? You don’t want to grow up. Look, my head is cut by the door, or it is water. Hum, what do you want? What do you want? Yes, it’s only 21. You have grown up. You think you are pretending to be naive, naive (or you can be more naive), and you think that others will treat you as a teenager, too naive, this is just your wishful thinking. Ha ha, do you think others are blind and can’t see it? Look, don’t be dissatisfied with it. Really, it’s really like this. Your brain is broken. Twenty-one is twenty-one, and it’s nothing. It’s just that when you grow up, you have more ideas and a heavy burden, and there is no need to be at a loss all day long. Missing the past is human nature, which can be understood and forgiven. Who doesn’t miss his beautiful childhood, and who doesn’t miss the beautiful days when he was innocent and carefree playing around his grandma and grandmother? But don’t forget that you are already 21 years old, 21 years old. What else do you want? Do you still want to do nothing and pretend that you don’t know anything? Don’t do that. It is self-deception and irresponsible to yourself. The shadow of your running in the sun is your lost youth. I remember that you were not such a person in the past, and that was a resolute and vigorous person. Everything was well-organized, never lost everything, never pushed today to tomorrow, and everything was almost perfect, take time as an important thing, never hope to see anything messy, treat life, study and work, that is two words pay attention to, it is simply an outstanding young man, have ideals and goals. (Don’t think too much. I didn’t say that you don’t pay attention to it now, but now you have regressed.) But now I have reminded you many times in my heart that you are such a big person. You should have a sense of responsibility and a sense of mission. Look at what you look like now. You are dizzy and dragging all day long, I didn’t put my words in my heart at all. Ha ha, things, the simplest way in the world is to push it to tomorrow, who doesn’t know, don’t you know? Tomorrow after tomorrow, there are so many tomorrow, but how many tomorrows can you entrust, and how many tomorrows can you entrust? To be honest, my buddy is really angry and feels sad and uneasy for you. Buddy, I can’t bear to see you fall. You know, it is always not worth to forgive a person for making himself degenerate by excuse. In fact, corruption is not terrible. What is terrible is that you are sober, watching yourself falling down and doing nothing, and unwilling to stand up to stop yourself from falling down. I think this is the most terrible thing in the world. I can see that you are like this now. You have no determination, and your will is not firm. You should reflect on yourself. Don’t think about what you have all day long. Waste all your time and years. We have all passed the age of running away from home in a fit of pique. We should work hard for our own career, think carefully for our old parents, and calculate for the unknown tomorrow. If you have a dream, go after it, don’t care how far you have to go; If you have an ideal, go to struggle, don’t care how much you have to pay. At the age of 21, we have ideals and goals. We are all fighting and struggling. Don’t let down all our expectations and the beautiful youth. Don’t be timid. Buddy knows what you think in your heart. Damn it, you are not confident. It seems that self-abasement is your specialty. Buddy knows you are bad in everything, but you still have great development potential. Don’t worry so much. If you want to fly higher, try to forget the horizon. You don’t have family conditions, status and relationship background, right, you have nothing. I think a lot of people care about it, and many people will think about it for these aspects. What’s more, you are a guy who lacks courage. However, if you want to live a better life, you need to be confident. If you are full of confidence, think about what life will be like. If you think that you are confident, are you a little excited. To be honest, you are a loser, at least for now. In the future, it depends on creation. The reason, I think, is that the university is too comfortable. In the university, you can be as happy as you want. Hehe, ridiculous, but you are not happy, you have the loneliness that the sunshine can not break down. Of course, these are all the aftermath. University is really a depraved abyss and a paradise to achieve a beautiful dream in the future. The key to what you want to do is yourself. It is really sad to continue with your current progress. Watch the computer all day long, or sleep endlessly, or look at the sky blankly. Oh, what kind of days are you living? Just thinking about it makes you look big. If it goes on like this, I am really sorry for my parents and for helping your relatives and friends. You always think like this, but you are still really sorry for them, not a little, but a lot. Parents work hard for you and have full expectations for you. Think about it, don’t you feel sad? You have, because you are soberly watching yourself fall down. Maybe there is no corruption in others’ eyes, but in my eyes, you are falling. Whatever, 21 years old, a lot of things, it’s time for you to think about it. Tomorrow, where should I go? Tomorrow, I hope you don’t hate yourself now. Struggle is often a matter for one person. The hard work now may be the happiness of tomorrow. Ah, is it good to be a little promising? It is always a dishonorable thing to hide and cry secretly. When thinking of parents and relatives, what’s the use of guilt in your heart? It was a man who shed tears into his heart and swallowed his teeth. Be strong and make up your mind for yourself and your family. Tomorrow is incredible, who knows who will be more promising tomorrow? Now it’s not so good, and people look down upon it. Don’t look down upon yourself. Life is like a chess game. Sometimes the level of chess skills is hidden. Whoever loses wins, whoever wins, and whoever loses. Later, hum, it’s hard to say. Twenty-one is an age of struggle and challenge yourself and others. The wind and water turn around, maybe I will come to your house soon. (I heard you getting angry, have the motivation.) Don’t underestimate my brother, what my buddy said is true. Sample, don’t be proud first, stay proud until the future glory. Speaking of love, I am still unhappy. One must be emotional at least once in one’s life. Why do you make love so unbearable because you are not confident. You are already 21 years old, and you are not too young. You said that you didn’t really have a love affair, and it was over before you started. It seemed to be a little sorry for youth and a little sad. It’s not what I said. It’s really like this. My buddy admitted that you didn’t look very good, but you were not very anxious. At least you didn’t scare the audience. There was nothing wrong with your appearance. It was all given by your parents. But if you don’t try hard to fight for it, you are wrong. Love doesn’t necessarily need much money and energy, and you don’t have to spend a lot of time. Work hard, love can be a powerful motivation, whether for study or work. Love can make a person better. I am really sad for the misfortune and angry. For love, you are very unsuccessful and always afraid to try, which is always very bad. Try it! Many things may happen suddenly overnight. When people talk about love, you are always silent, always saying that a person is also good. In fact, it is a self-comfort in a person’s loneliness. If you want to talk, try harder. Life is not easy, why do you make yourself so tired. After four years of college, if the first kiss is still there, if you haven’t held the girl’s hand, then you are really too delicious, don’t blame me for looking down on you. You are a dead-witted child, unable to speak and slow to respond. Returning to the memory itself, you should take some courage, stop being timid, or learn to face it firmly. In life, love, family affection, friendship, work, career, future, many things are still beyond our control. Although you are so unbearable, I still love you. No one doesn’t love yourself, right? Yes, you should love yourself severely. Don’t say anything else, waiting for your transformation. People come and go, the way you choose, even if you are kneeling, you have to finish it. I hope you can do it yourself! Best wishes for you! Another self lives in the hearts of those who love you Thursday, November 28th, 2013 (if we are all peers, maybe we have a lot in common, writing for ourselves and for your bosom friend!)

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My son passed the mid-term exam in junior three, and received a text message to hold a parent-teacher meeting. Usually, my son is not likely to talk about things in the class when he comes back, so I think this parent-teacher meeting is a good opportunity to have face-to-face communication with the teacher, and I hope to know about my son’s learning situation in school through the parent-teacher meeting. My son did better than before in this mid-term exam, and he felt more cheerful than before. Before, their class had been at the end of the so-called good class, thinking about the vigorous son when he just entered junior high school, and then his will became more and more depressed, and he always felt very sad. He once regretted that he shouldn’t be allowed to enter this class, thinking that he could still be a Phoenix if he was allowed to enter an ordinary school. My son didn’t take out the growth record book until I went to school in the afternoon to write my parents’ comments. I saw the mid-term reflection written by him saying that he didn’t do well in Chinese and English, so he had to work hard. There were some small mistakes that he shouldn’t make in other science subjects. First of all, I affirmed that he could recognize his own shortcomings, which was very good. We should work harder on subjects with weak Chinese and English, and give him a clear goal. We hope that he will work towards his goal and strive for his satisfactory results in the next exam. When I arrived at the classroom, I sat on my son’s seat and heard the teacher in charge introduce that their class did well in the exam this time. Two classes, Class 5 and class 15, have always been the best classes in grade. This time, our class rushed to the third position. They all said it was a dark horse. There were several subjects, mathematics, chemistry and so on all passed the first grade. English used to change teachers in the first and second year of junior high school, but now it is taken over by teacher Yang. She has devoted a lot of efforts to urge them to read and recite English in class early every day, as long as they are free during class, they will ask students to change their homework, so that their English scores will also go up. I really want to thank teacher Yang for his high English score. Then the head teacher praised the students who did well in this exam: From the top of the class to the top of the single subject. My son was also praised several times in the single subject of science, but I was always worried that my son’s name would be reported when I was on the list of students whose application form was relatively poor, but in the end, I didn’t report for duty. The polarization of his son’s Arts and Sciences is too great. Science is in the forefront of the class while Liberal Arts is behind. Now the main problem is to raise the liberal arts scores. The head teacher said that the girls in their class studied very seriously, which was recognized by all the teachers. There are 13 girls in the top 20 and only 3 girls in the last ten of the class. The reason why their class did well in the exam this time was that there was no low score in the class. Those with the lowest total score in the class all had more than 450 points, before the 600th grade. Because the students are relatively balanced, the total scores of this class are among the best. The head teacher said that the time from the senior high school entrance examination now is just like the final stage of the 100-meter sprint. As a parent, he should accompany his child to help him run away, and he can’t scold the child only when he sees which subject is not well tested. Children are innocent. Some of the compositions they write mean that their parents just take a fancy to the scores, and if they fail in the exam, they will be scolded. This will only make children more and more tired of learning. As parents, we should be children’s friends, let children speak their hearts, let children see their goals clearly, and our parents should encourage children to work towards their goals. Children have great potential. This time my son couldn’t get his Chinese and English scores. I don’t blame him for Chinese, as long as he doesn’t fall down badly. For him, Chinese has always been a weakness. Since entering the fifth grade, Chinese has rarely achieved excellence. The only thing I did well was that I did well in the graduation exam. However, the best time since entering junior high school was the mid-term exam of grade two, which scored 80 points. Although I feel that he has read a lot of extra-curricular books, he can’t express them in his own words. I always feel that he is a cursive person, so that reading is equal to not reading, which leads to Chinese reading, composition weakest. In primary school, English was my son’s strong point, which was always far ahead of the class. Even in the first year of junior high school, English was still in the forefront of the class. I don’t know why I can’t even pass the class on average. In the aspect of English, I thought he lacked the skill of reading and reciting, which led to his poor performance. He is always asked to recite more words and will certainly catch up. I also asked him to recite the words to me this Saturday, and the spot check was quite good. I couldn’t figure out why he couldn’t get his English scores when he entered junior three. Is it not suitable for the new teacher? But it is also wrong! His class changed his English teacher all the time in the first and second grade of junior high school. I didn’t feel that his English score had dropped badly! Today, when the parent-teacher meeting was held, the teacher sent out the students’ English test paper specially. He saw that his son’s basic questions lost little points, and the main problem was reading comprehension. This exactly? I want to communicate with my English teacher. The teacher said that he should do more reading exercises and ask the children to buy extra-curricular reading books by themselves. She said that basic questions rarely lose points, and they are memorized and written silently every day. Moreover, when it comes to the graduation exam, translating sentences will recite sentence patterns for students, even if they write words, there will be no loss of scores. The main reason is that they lose scores in reading, and reading accounts for a lot of scores in the whole test paper, there are more than 40 points. I told the English teacher that I could recite words well even if I smoked him. Why couldn’t I get up? I asked my son what is the main lack of English? The English teacher said that I watched Chen Fei do his reciting, silent writing and usual homework. It was really good, but I didn’t know how he couldn’t get the exam results. I just thought: whether my son’s English reading is the same as Chinese, and his comprehension ability is relatively weak. Now it is not as simple as reciting words. I really need to do more reading comprehension questions and make him form a sense of language, so that English can be improved. As long as his English can rise by ten percent, his grades will be in the top ten of the class. After the meeting, I told my son the situation of being praised by the teacher, saying that I would buy extra-curricular reading next time when I went back. My son nodded and agreed. This time I seemed to see my son grow up. I know, in fact, my son has always been a positive and motivated child since he was a child. I really think my son is very excellent after listening to the teacher talking about other children. It also made me gradually see that he was getting closer to his ideal goal. Son, you are good. If you try harder, I believe that you will be admitted to the high school you have been longing for for for a long time next year.

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Art is to give full play to positive energy, so art is positive energy. Art is a kind of spirit, which includes scientific attitude, lofty sentiment and so on. Therefore, art is a direction, a direction to excavate all positive energy, our learning and training is to find the direction of art that suits ourselves and gives full play to our positive energy. First of all, we must believe that through hard work, everyone can become an artist, and a life that loves art is the most meaningful life. How to form your own unique artistic style? It is to have your own unique artistic feeling, artistic conception and the rhythm rules that move. The movement of art is to move, that is, to have rhythm and feeling at any time, no matter quiet, still, alone, gathering and living, work, study and rest, move with artistic conception and rhythm. However, whenever and wherever you move, you must have a sense of artistic norms, rhythm, feeling, when moving with rhythm and artistic conception, as a natural person, not all people are born with these relatively strong artistic talents. At least 2/3 of the people have to go through learning and training to get them, there are only a few people who really have talent without training. These people are born with unique artistic advantages. Therefore, those artists are born with much higher talents than ordinary people, but only a few people, most people can achieve certain success through hard study and training in art, and moving is one of the basic skills, which must be moved all the time, anytime and anywhere (no matter quiet, stay still, stay alone, gather together and live, work, study and rest at any time with rhythm, feeling, artistic conception and rhythm). As long as you are willing to endure hardship, and the methods of learning and training are correct, together with strong will and persistent struggle to the end, I believe that everyone will become an artist and even an artist. The Earth rotates while rotating. Because of this, the Earth is moving both day and night. Therefore, movement gives birth to life, and life lies in movement, Formed the dialectical objective relationship between life and movement. Human beings are a part of natural products. They are natural people. People without training are the first natural person, or they are a kind of inherent survival instinct of life. While the expressive force of art is higher than life (nature), which is the second natural stage that can be achieved after training. It is the expression form of art with goals and purposes, most people have to go through strict and hard training to finally realize it. This kind of training is the movement of art and science. The training of art mainly focuses on the practice and training of feeling and artistic conception, while the training of vocal music art must focus on the training of silent feeling and artistic conception, we should give priority to the practice and training of head resonance, and then the training of solfeggio and ear training; All the practice and training of art should be promoted gradually from low to high, from easy to difficult, and it should be strictly carried out under the norms of Art (practice and training). First of all, we must firmly grasp the more artistic feeling and artistic conception, seize the opportunity of inspiration coming, and remember the relevant parts in mind, from one example to another, in the process of training, we must come up with a good and strong-willed spirit, attitude and habit, and do not take detours; the practice of feeling and artistic conception of art is mainly the training of rhythm of feeling and artistic conception, which is the foundation of the Foundation; The training time of art is longer, For example, the training time of the silent feeling and artistic conception of vocal music art must be long, which can be carried out 24 hours a day, while the training of solfeggio should be at least several hours per day, otherwise, it will not work, because the silent feeling and artistic conception training of vocal music art can be carried out anytime and anywhere, so don’t stop, you can also stop; Our attitude towards art training, just like building an art Mansion, you need to lay a solid foundation meticulously, down-to-earth, and a castle in the air that can’t come to a little bit. You can’t make do with it and do things perfunctorily, if you make up with art, art will double make up with you, and the result will be nothing. Therefore, we must firmly believe that success is natural, as long as the truth that hard work is made into needles, carry out hard and persistent art training. After the wind and rain, there must be a beautiful art rainbow waiting for us. After hard work, we must build our own and immortal art building. Key words of vocal music (must be in order): First of all, we must believe that everyone can become an artist through hard work; Take heart, emotion, devotion, passion and persistence, and the spirit of beauty and goodness of works, the comprehension and training of attitude, rhyme, rhythm, feeling and artistic conception; A lot of exercises on head and face movements such as raising your head backward, bending down, moving your scalp up and down, turning your eyes, smiling and opening your mouth wide; ban desire, ban sexual desire and maintain a strong energy; Strong will, more correct imitation, more listening, more experience, more solfeggio and ear training; Intonation and main melody, rhythm, tai chi and other exercises; the movement of scalp and eyes makes the pronunciation clear and relaxed; The comprehension and training of staves, simplified scores and vigor (mainly silent practice and training, supplemented by solfeggio and real singing), whether the training methods of vocal music and calligraphy are correct or not determines success and failure, and determines the level. Vocal music first finds feelings from recitation, which is also very important and necessary. Key words of calligraphy (must be in order): First of all, we must believe that everyone can become an artist through hard work; Take heart, emotion, devotion, passion and persistence, and the spirit of beauty and goodness of works, comprehension and training of attitude, rhyme, rhythm, feeling and artistic conception; A large number of backward heads, hand feeling Training, partial protrusion exercises of fingertips, fingers and elbow turning, arm strength, practice of neck and waist strength; Ban desire, sexual desire and maintain a strong energy, strong will; Imitation, rhythm, tai chi practice, understanding and training of Spirit (calligraphy is mainly based on practice without pen and ink, supplemented by practice and practice). Key words of Dance (must be in order): First of all, we must believe that everyone can become an artist through hard work; Take heart, emotion, devotion, passion and persistence, and the spirit of beauty and goodness of works, the comprehension and training of attitude, rhyme, rhythm, feeling and artistic conception; A lot of exercises on head and face movements such as raising your head backward, bending down, moving your scalp up and down, turning your eyes, smiling and opening your mouth wide; ban desire, ban sexual desire and maintain a strong energy, strong will; Imitation, rhythm, tai chi practice, body coordination practice of basic skills, understanding and training of vigor and spirit, etc. The key of the method of art is to keep heart, emotion, devotion, passion and persistence. On August 4, 2014, at Lugou Bridge in Fengtai. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era

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