Last night, the child’s father went to pick up the son of night self-study. When I have a husband, I feel that I am always sleepy and want to sleep. Maybe it is because of dependence. And my son seems to be bored because his father is here. Because the words his father gave him were always reproachful, and he always asked a lot, which made him feel very annoyed, even my mother felt very annoyed when listening to him. Last night, my son had some porridge and leaned against the bed with English review paper, but soon his eyes were closed and he was going to sleep. Later I asked him to get up and wash his face and feet, and he ignored him, I fell asleep on the bed without taking off my clothes and shoes. Later, his father helped him take off his shoes and socks and move him to the bed to cover the quilt for him. At five o’clock in the morning, I wanted to wake up my son early so that he could read English, but why couldn’t I wake up? He didn’t go out to wash up until five o’clock, and then he looked very serious lying on the table, I thought he was reading English, and I was still happy. I didn’t know that he was still doing the last big math question until later. I guess I didn’t make it yesterday, but now I’m thinking about it. When I came back last night for porridge, I asked him whether he had finished his homework? He said it was done. I said that you would read English later and then read the composition, and these two are his weakest items now. My son promised well, but he fell asleep soon. Maybe he was really tired. But if a person has a dream, even if he is sleepy, he will find a way to overcome it. He always wants to do things well! Looking at my son’s state, I am really worried. When his father got up in the morning, he said: Chen Fei, I helped you remove your slippers and socks last night. You didn’t wash your face, so you were so lazy. My son said as soon as he heard it: you are so bored! I said: don’t come in the future, I ‘d better stay with my son! The child’s father had a lot of opinions. But I do have a feeling that as long as the child’s father is here, his ambition will disappear. Why? There are only two reasons for me to think over and over again: one is that what the child’s father often says is always striking. We know that children all need encouragement. If you want him to be good, you should say positive encouragement and let him develop in a good way. And always use striking words, not to mention children, no matter who is unwilling to listen. Since I don’t want to listen to you, I can’t communicate with you. Second, the child’s father always gets up very late. I once told him that if your son is here, you should get up early and set an example. But he couldn’t do it, instead, he was an example of sleeping in. And his son is studying. He plays cards on the computer. Can these not give children a bad impression? It is also said that he would not want his father to come in the future. Can he really not want him to come? No, a man is the head of the family. How can he not come? I just hope he can have a positive influence on my son. Parents are children’s role models! In particular, the role of father is an example of masculinity of men. My son spent a lot of time with me, which made him quiet and gentle like a girl. In a family, parents are the first teachers of their children. If they want their children to do well, they must do well first. They can’t do well. How can they ask their children to do well? Everything is imperceptibly influenced. So when the child’s father told him what his son did, his son always talked back to him, and he was more reasonable than him. However, he would never talk back to my son. He listened to what I said, but he didn’t have perseverance, which still needed to be done by his efforts. What pleased me this morning was that my son didn’t want me to urge him when he arrived. He would take the initiative to pack up and go to school. I praised it on my way to school. If a child is still a child, he should be able to discover the advantages of the child every day and encourage him more to make him have a good mood. The state of learning is very important. If you are in a bad mood, you will not learn well at this stage. There is still a little time before the senior high school entrance examination. I hope I can set an example and logistics for my son in the final sprint so that he can achieve his wish. This is also my biggest wish!

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