I was at home alone last night, and suddenly I felt a little more lonely. I didn’t know what to do. My wife worked night shift, and her eldest daughter didn’t stay at home for ten days during summer vacation. She was recalled by the school long ago and prepared for the selection of TV Defense contest. Her youngest daughter started her three-year high school life yesterday because she was far away from home, if you live in school, you will not go home every day after school like junior high school. As long as they are at home, they will be full of vitality, even sometimes, there is a little smoke, which is called popularity or anger. The days will really be inadvertently, like water in a hurry. Not to mention that my eldest daughter finished junior high school in her hometown, then went to senior high school and took part in the College Entrance Examination. Now she is a junior. Her youngest daughter has been studying in Suzhou city, and she is also in primary school and junior high school. Now she is also. In these years, although the cold came and went, looking back, it was really fleeting, and I couldn’t catch up with it if I wanted. Looking at it with low eyebrows, the children said that if they were big, they would be big. They were no longer those active and naughty people in the past. Yesterday was Saturday. I was supposed to go to work. I asked the leader for instructions and took a day off to send my little daughter to school. Although compared with her classmates who were admitted to Su High School, Mudu High School and Su Yuan high school, it seemed to be a little deficient, it was also good to be admitted to Jiangsu Foreign language school. The child still worked hard, I really worked hard. In terms of the admission scores of the school, the old and the young were able to go to Suyuan middle school, but they were not sure at that time. They were a little conservative when filling in the volunteer, so they did not dare to fill in. But being admitted to a foreign language school proves that I still worked hard in junior high school for three years. Apart from Su High School, Mudu High School, Su yuan High School and foreign language school all have their own characteristics, and they are always the first choice for parents and examinees, so they cannot simply favor one another. I have always thought that the advantages and disadvantages of schools are just one aspect. If students lack the desire to advance, are not good at studying, do not study seriously, and go to schools no matter how good they are, they may not really be competitive. Personal efforts far exceed other factors. When I got the admission notice, I warned the children that the junior high school life was coming to an end and the senior high school life was about to begin. The achievements made in junior high school have become the past. It only shows that the goal of this stage has been achieved through our own efforts. For the next goal, everything is unknown and full of variables, all the boys and girls who entered the high school stood at the same starting line again. Three years later, it was not sure that the students with high scores would laugh to the end, it is not likely that the students who are at the bottom of the ranking will not come from behind. Although the rules of the game are the same, they will definitely reshuffle. Whoever laughs to the end depends on who makes the most efforts. Therefore, from now on, we must set reasonable goals for ourselves. In order to achieve our own goals, we must persevere. We should not only work hard, but also work skillfully. We should not just do it recklessly. On the way to send my little daughter to school yesterday, I told her again that the curriculum of high school is very different from that of junior high school. The depth and breadth are different, and we should learn it well at the beginning, without getting started at the beginning, the rest is no less than the Arabian Nights. Therefore, remember a word that everything is difficult at the beginning and well grasped at the beginning, then a lot of knowledge will be integrated, just like running water, one place is blocked, how can the back be unobstructed? If you haven’t learned the simple things thoroughly, how can you understand the deep content? Although the current education system and examination system have been criticized by many people, there is no better way to replace the previous one. Such system must be maintained, no matter how bad the advantages are, at least it can guarantee the maximum fairness. After finishing the junior high school entrance examination and the senior high school entrance examination and the university entrance examination, one word in the examination did not make many parents and examinees fear at the sight, but what could happen? Half a time, can there be a better way? Nowadays, children have already adapted to such big exams and exams, which are common in their growth process. After all, in the process of a person’s growth, besides the examination of book knowledge, how many other tests will he face? Therefore, examination is in the process of life, some unavoidable existence is everywhere all the time. There are many parents who send their children to school, almost every family. Living in school makes many parents feel relieved. Although children stand in front of them, they are already young adults, but when they are truly independent, they are very little. If they want to start a brand new life now, it will certainly affect many people’s nerves. From primary school to junior high school, most children have never left their parents’ sight, let alone leaving home. It is reasonable to worry about being a parent. However, children grow up year by year, it can’t always be under the wings of parents. If so, how to cultivate their independence and their spirit of responsibility? For a child, being an adult is more important than becoming a talent. Before becoming a talent, one must be an adult first. Therefore, independence and growth are the primary problems they must face. They cannot put the cart before the horse for various reasons, as parents, we should understand this point. Growth is a process. A seed can take root and sprout immediately without burying it in the soil, let alone blossom and bear fruit soon. A tree seedling will not grow rapidly just after being planted, not to mention that it can grow into a wood in two years, there will be a cycle, that is to say, there is a process. This process is very important and will directly affect the results. For children, every year they grow older, from primary school to junior high school, from junior high school to senior high school, they are all their growing experiences, and there are many stories worth sharing. Although many parents say nothing, they are very worried about their children’s ability to live in school and take care of themselves. I am not worried about this. She told her wife that the little guy could cook meals and wash clothes at ordinary times, which was not a difficult problem for her. But we ourselves, without her around, are much quiet and will undoubtedly be much deserted. But there is no perfect way. Since we know that growth is such a process, we cannot avoid this situation. Sharpening, or sharpening, is to train people better. When we were older, our parents’ feelings were absolutely the same, but they didn’t show them. But when we left home, we felt the same loneliness and worry, as full of hope. But in any case, if you want to grow, you must take such a road full of tests. Growth is a process. Only by going through one thing and one thing can we distinguish right from wrong, increase our knowledge and better understand the difficulty of success.

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