Children, the people who love you most in this world are your parents. As parents, seeing you sometimes feel so hard on yourself to indulge yourself, or do something that makes you have a hard time. You know how distressed your parents are. Seeing your childish behaviors one after another, as a mother, I really want to say to my child: my child, the person who loves you most is me. How can you be willing to make me sad. (1) at five o’clock in the morning, before dawn, he climbed to the second floor along the water pipe and climbed through the window to enter the room. Instead of stealing, he went home to enter his own room. Why didn’t he dare to go to the front door when he went home, but went home secretly while the moon was dark and the stars were thin? Perhaps, many people are strange and have a lot of guesses. Let me tell you that he is only 12 years old. The child slipped downstairs quietly through the window and along the water pipe when his family fell asleep at 1 o’clock in the middle of the night, I went to the internet cafe to surf the Internet, went home from the original road at in the morning, climbed to bed, pretending to be lying on the bed like a good baby. The child’s academic performance was good at first, but because he loved surfing the Internet, his father was afraid that it would affect his study, so he cut off the network cable at home and didn’t allow him to surf the Internet in the Internet cafe. He sent him to school during the day, they took him home on time at night, and their school was also very closed. Children were not allowed to leave school when they entered. There was someone guarding the door at the school gate. No idler was allowed to wait in and out, and no children were allowed to leave school without authorization. So in order to surf the Internet, the child tossed himself up and down in his study. The originally chubby little boy, because he didn’t sleep well for a long time and had a loss of appetite, even ate less and less, made him sallow and emaciated now, when walking, his limbs were weak. His parents always thought that the child was in poor health because of malnutrition. Of course, his study was not good. However, what he did behind his parents was so disappointing, how heart-wrenching. Children, you shouldn’t spoil yourself like this. You have no right to treat yourself like this. Every time you treat yourself like this, your parents will feel sad if they know it, the heart is like a knife, anger is the second, the most important thing is that they will worry about you. Faced with what you have done, parents don’t know at all. They only know that you are thin, which makes them feel distressed and worried. Cheating them like this makes them worried about you, you are exhausted physically and mentally, how can you bear your conscience? This is your parents. (Ii) she is the natural beauty of the family, the only child of her parents, grandparents love her, parents regard her as the Apple of the eye, although grandparents are more than her granddaughter, but grandparents only love her, she is the youngest granddaughter of grandparents, and the cousins on it can only serve as a foil for her. If she has any requirements, she only needs to say it out, including those brothers, sisters, uncles and aunts in the family, the generations who loved her were obliged to satisfy her. When she was promoted to junior high school, unfortunately, she failed to enter the Ideal High School. She wanted to go to that ideal High School. However, her score was still a few ten points short. For her sake, put down the airs of being the leader of the enterprise at all costs and ask for help everywhere. The uncles and aunts in her family were also started up by grandparents, helping her to try their best to leave everywhere. But that school kept her out all the time, and a cousin in the family who was not favored was a special student at school, although her grades were comparable to hers, however, she was exceptionally admitted by that school. If so, she was furious with her grandparents and parents, saying that they were useless, showing the faces of her uncles and aunts that they did not try their best. Children, no matter how useless your parents and relatives are, you are not qualified to lose your temper at them. Parents raised you so big with great difficulty. They also hope you are good. They also hope you can go to a good school. How can they not do their best for you? They only have the ability to do this for you, and how do you want them to do it? Even if it takes their lives, it is still in vain. Children, what qualifications do you have to say that your parents are useless, what qualifications do you have to lose temper with your parents, you have to rely on your parents to raise you, you have to rely on your parents to earn money to study for you, what do you have without parents? What makes you look at your parents? (3) when he went to college, the first thing he considered was to ask his parents to save money for him to buy a house. He told his parents that now girls have to prepare a house when getting married, his parents were ordinary workers, and it was just right for him to go to college. It was really hard to buy a house for him. He put down his words: I don’t care, you must finish the house for me! Therefore, his parents had no choice but to go to other places to work after work. Both of them had entered middle age and had limited physical strength, but they worked 16 hours a day for him. At the age of eighteen, he thought of the life-long event that he would marry and have children in the future, which forced his parents to work hard for the continuation of the family’s next generation. I think, when he gets married and has a child, the child must be brought by his parents. If he raises him, he must also help him with the child. Others say that the child is the debt owed by his parents in his previous life, as a child of his parents, he really came to ask for debts from his parents. Not only him, but also his future children have placed orders, which are taken by their parents and asked for them by themselves. He is just like taking it for granted. He doesn’t know that his parents are for him, how hard it was. He didn’t know how hard it was to share some difficulties for his family. He was still so ignorant that he constantly squeezed out his parents’ blood and sweat for his future enjoyment. Live in the money you earn to buy a house, even if the house is not as big as others, not as good as others is also worthy of pride. People live in the world. If everything depends on others to help you, what is the difference between it and a worm. Children, your parents are not your long-term workers, your minions, or your life-long meal tickets. You can’t squeeze your parents and raise you up like this all your life, they don’t know how much effort they have spent. Now they have to work so hard for you in the future. Do you still have to go on seeing them working so hard. Why can’t you fight with your own hands and enjoy your success? Do you know that your happiness is based on your parents’ blood and sweat, can you still bear it and enjoy everything at ease? (Iv) when she reached the age of marriage, she fell in love online. Her partner was disliked by her parents and told her that they had checked clearly the character and family situation of her partner, it was really not suitable for her, and the most important thing was that the boy had no ambition at all. He had a bad temper and had talked about several girls. None of the neighbors around him spoke well of him. In spite of this, she was determined to marry him wholeheartedly. Despite her parents’ strong opposition, she moved out and lived with the boy whom others couldn’t say well. She thought that she would wash and cook for him, do a good job for a wife, and live a life with him. He would be grateful and would change because of her, the fact was wrong. Soon after she moved, his bad habits came out one by one. He treated her better when he was satisfied, and punched her when he was not satisfied. She knew that no matter how she did it, he would not change for her. He was like this. He was not a good person and he didn’t know how to cherish her. She thought of home when she was desperate, and then she knew why her parents were so opposed to associate with him. She didn’t know how much her parents worried about her. She didn’t know that her parents should know that their daughter would be like a sheep, how distressed my parents were when I gave it to the wolf to bully. In terms of marital affairs, although parents’ opinions can only be used for reference, you have to consider how you will live in the future when you get married. If a person looks so bad on the surface, isn’t it mean that you still want to live with him? Why influence the relationship between you and your parents for an irrelevant person. Children, if you are hurt, it is your parents who hurt you. You don’t know that your parents’ greatest wish is to wish you happiness and safety. If you can’t live like this, what’s the point of them living, hit you and hurt your parents. (5) he always complains about his parents, saying that his father would be lazy when he brought his children, and that his mother would say that he was uncomfortable when he brought his children. He often scolded his parents for his child was ill. It was obvious that he didn’t take good care of his parents and didn’t help them to wear them. His parents’ house was demolished, and the government compensated his parents for a new house. If so, he sold his house and moved to the new house to live with his parents. Finally, because his wife always quarreled with his mother over trivial matters, for the sake of family harmony, he was obliged to drive his parents outside to rent a house. I don’t know if he felt very relieved when his parents went outside to rent a house. It Was Not others but his parents. It was selfless for parents to give their children. However, what did we give to our parents? Soon after, he divorced his wife, so it was very inconvenient for him to take the child alone. His parents moved back to help him take the child. And that is in the 80, 90 after some typical example, I don’t know, how much like that, happiness of 80, 90, live in the light, haven’t met laid-off difficulties, I have never met the 50 s or 60 s who went to the countryside and went to the countryside. I have never met the 70 s who just pushed down the big pot and ran around for life. There is only a market with advanced scientific and technological progress, only parents for they want a Guangming Road, can say, 80, 90 was one of the luckiest, what change never catch up. Yes, happiness is around you, but you are not sure, it is just as painful. As the children of parents, our marriage parents also care about each other. Our happiness is related to the whole life of our parents. We are happy and our parents feel at ease. Parents do not expect their children to be filial, nor do they expect their children to contribute to their family. They only hope their children to be happy. What do you think after reading these? The people who love ourselves most in this world are parents. If we live a bad life, parents will feel sad. As children, why should we let parents worry about ourselves. However, when we treat children, as parents, we see some problems of children, and we are really full of bitter water that cannot be poured out. Everything is good for them, but they are always disappointing. I want to ask the children, children, the person who loves you most is me, how can you be willing to make me sad.

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