Today is our wedding anniversary, which is the seven-year itch and the seventh anniversary as everyone says. I have been worried about this issue since I got married, because everyone is saying that it is really inappropriate to know it through seven years, some people have ended the happiness of their choice in less than seven years. I have been worried for seven years, struggling for seven years and looking forward to seven years. Now I finally expect it. There is no worry, no entanglement, and more touching and understanding. Both of our families are very ordinary. Neither of our families is rich nor well-educated. In this way, our marriage is said to be well-matched and suitable. Marriage is not that a woman marries a man, or a man marries a woman to go home. This is just the preface of marriage, and it has not really entered the rich and colorful content of marriage. Marriage needs the operation of two people marriage needs the tolerance of two people marriage needs the communication of two people marriage needs the respect of two people marriage needs the gratitude of two people summary one sentence marriage needs the heart of two people. Marriage, especially for a woman, is not only to marry the man you love, but also the habit of marrying this person, to adapt to his life, adapt to some good and bad habits of himself. What you want to marry is his family, which is the key point to maintain family harmony on the basis of two people’s love. It is relatively happy to marry the man you love, and at the same time, it is relatively happy to marry his habitual marriage. If you can marry his family together, then the so-called itching of seven places will no longer exist. There is a saying that a happy marriage requires three marriages. The first time is to walk into the Palace of expectation with the people you love in the blessings of relatives and friends; The second time is to stay at home, after several years of grinding, two people get married with each other’s living habits; The third time is to get married with each other’s family. There was no grand wedding or anyone’s blessing for the second and third marriages. The only thing they had was the tacit understanding between them. A real marriage must have a second and third wedding without ceremony. If there is no second and third wedding, maybe the legendary seven-year itch will really appear. Our partner not only belongs to us, but also belongs to his family and friends. Isn’t there a saying: love is like sand in hand, and the tighter it is, the faster the loss is, so I learned to put my hands aside and leave a little space for the other party to allow the other party to have their own secrets in their hearts. Life is like a cup of tea. It will not suffer for a lifetime, but it will always suffer for a while. Life is not smooth, there will always be a very difficult period of time. During this period of time, we must communicate and tell each other what we think in our hearts. Happiness between husband and wife does not have to be shared together, we must bear the sufferings together, or if we have our own worries, problems may occur in marriage. Don’t see one person and love one person. If you love too much, love will depreciate. Sometimes it doesn’t matter that not every word of sorry can be exchanged for the other person’s sentence. Give love only to that person, then your love is priceless. Romance is a beautiful evening gown. Although it is beautiful, it cannot be worn every day. Marriage is different from love. Love can have surprises anytime and anywhere. Marriage is more of a plain life, but don’t forget your evening gown. You can’t wear it every day, but you should take it out regularly to try, this is to live a wonderful life without salt or light. Love is always more holy than marriage, and marriage is always more affordable than love. When I am in love, I always say that I love you. Maybe I seldom hear this sentence when I get married. Don’t be unhappy. Sometimes speaking doesn’t mean forgetting, but remembering it in my heart. You should know how to cherish it better! In fact, after seven years of marriage, I really have a lot of feelings. Marriage is not as beautiful as in fairy tales, nor as touching as on TV, the other side is not the Prince white horse and Snow White as you imagine, but just plain. But he will give you a home, a happy and warm home, and a real life. This is marriage. The beauty of life is not as beautiful as that of life, which makes our life and marriage beautiful. Don’t believe in life! Dedicate this paragraph to yourself, hoping that your marriage life will be happier. More to all, happy friends will be happier, unhappy friends will be happier!

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