My third sister is my former partner in the same village in the countryside. In 1996, she came to the city to do business. Over the years, their family of three has been living in a small rental house less than 20 square meters. This year, she finally bought three rooms and two halls. Although not many people came to congratulate him. But the elegant decoration in her house and the thick fragrance of wild chrysanthemum in the house attracted me a lot. Those wild chrysanthemum flowers were picked by the children of her family from their grandparents in the countryside during the Mid-Autumn Festival, spreading all over the house. When I was young, I also liked wild chrysanthemum very much. I remember that it was also this season. I often went to the back mountain to pick. Take them home in bundles, insert them in the cracks of the wall, hang them on the doors and windows, or even put them into small bottles filled with water. Although wild chrysanthemum has some fragrance of rural soil, it is fragrant and beautiful enough. Girls in our village also like wild chrysanthemum. Some of them will take it off and insert it into the dishevelled hair cluster, or tie it on the hair knot. There are also older girls who are even fifteen or sixteen years old, and they will wear it to walk on the road in the village. Some bold peels often watch their makeup and shout loudly: Sister Hua, go ahead boldly, go ahead, don’t go back to the wild chrysanthemum, small flower, yellowish yellow, is Compositae, also belongs to grass. Its unique simplicity often releases the unique beauty and fragrance of rural girls, which brings endless temptation to rural boys. I think the deep love of the whole village’s children for wild chrysanthemum should have some connection with the local culture of our village. Girls, when it was time to start a family, they didn’t have high extravagant hopes and didn’t need three hires and six gifts, and didn’t need to wear gold and silver. As long as they can get together with their beloved people, they can do whatever they want and suffer. In our place, the family background of ordinary mother-in-law is relatively thin. They go outside to work with their beloved ones, and a considerable part of them actually work as transporters in Foshan ceramics factory or do small work on construction sites. They would save every part of their blood and sweat they earned by themselves, and after they handed over some to their parents who had endured hardships, the rest would be used to prepare for their own marriage. On the holy day of marriage, they could do everything else from Jane. However, the Phoenix Flower which looked like chrysanthemum on their heads could never be saved. If not, then the door of the girl’s marriage on this day will be closed. Even if the person who came to marry her was bitter, it would not help. It must be bought by her beloved bridegroom. Of course, there were some people who didn’t hold the wedding ceremony, but on this special day, she and her beloved person, even though they had to be decorated with chrysanthemum. Even if it is a female college student who has been admitted to the university and gone out from the village, it is the same. Their future life started from this chrysanthemum. After getting married, most of them went out to work in pairs again, and some were unwilling to wander far away, so they went to the city to make a living and rent a shop to start the business of chrysanthemum: open a teahouse or sell some flowers with chrysanthemum, etc. Soon afterwards, some of them also started to buy cars and houses, and lived the same life as city dwellers. They even squeezed their children into schools in the city to study. This is a life that they never expect before. Inadvertently, they also live. The schools in the city also broke the traditional old system, bringing together the children in the city and the children from the countryside. Occasionally, those rural children would bring wild chrysanthemum from the countryside into their schools and classrooms, making the whole campus filled with the fragrance of wild chrysanthemum. Wild chrysanthemum, small flower, yellowish, is Compositae, also belongs to grass. However, it used to show its beauty and fragrance silently in our countryside. But now, it is no longer the unique wild chrysanthemum in our village. It has stepped into the small city step by step, stepped into the metropolis, and began to decorate the city’s scenery, revealing another kind of fragrance.

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