Ten years of trees, One Hundred Years of trees, education is like cooking soup, which needs to be simmered slowly. If making soup is as urgent as cooking, how can you cook delicious food with excellent fragrance? Inscription [how should I educate you] it was over 7 o’clock in the evening when my son came home from school. Covered with dust, a tired face. The teacher asked each student to clean the classroom with pots, brushes and washing powder to do the cleaning work before the start of school. My son said to me aggrieved: he was the only one in the whole class carrying things, and he was the only one washing the floor of the whole classroom. Some classmates borrowed his Basin but didn’t know to return it to him. Later he found it by himself. The teacher assigned a good job in dumping garbage. He slipped away long ago. He stayed and dumped the garbage before going home. The gentle and kind son said angrily: they are too incompetent, too disobeying the rules, and have no sense of responsibility at all! I wanted to open my mouth to comfort my son, but I didn’t know how to speak. Because this kind of thing has happened to him many times from primary school to now. The contrast between reality and my son’s education is too great. Facing my son’s doubts and indignation, my language seems too pale. From childhood to adulthood, I have been educating children, obeying public rules, and being a person with social responsibility and responsibility. Fortunately, my children grew up all the way according to my educational requirements. He keeps a low profile, is friendly to his classmates, respects teachers and loves relatives. In addition, I am also very pleased that my son loves science. He pursues truth diligently with a realistic and realistic attitude. He is a good student with excellent quality and learning, not only with scores first. When he was in the fourth grade of primary school, I spent more than 800 yuan to buy him an astronomical telescope according to his requirements. After that, he often took this telescope to observe Astronomy with a group of astronomy enthusiasts and wrote Observation diaries. In the fourth grade of primary school, he was able to read Hawking’s “black hole” and had a strong interest in black holes. At home, no matter what you eat, you should ask your elders first, and never forget to leave some for your cousin who lives together. Our family was fairly affluent, but he never compared with others to eat, wear and play. He dressed simply and helped others generously. I gave him enough money to attend summer camp with my classmates, but he used money rationally and never spent it randomly. He had many classmates who had already spent all his money. My children lent them money generously to help them in emergency. When eating in the school canteen, some children ate his free food for half a month and never paid him back. Other students really couldn’t stand it, so they quietly told my son that they should never pay attention to that classmate any more, because this classmate had already owed several classmates, it’s just that other students are not as generous as my son. Sometimes, my son asks me: why are other classmates not as good as us? Where can they get money to buy iphone4s and apad? I was speechless, and I didn’t know how to answer him. Because I knew the temperament of my child, his lucky money was controlled by himself, so he also saved a sum of money which was not small. When his classmates knew it, someone secretly borrowed money from him for hundreds of yuan without telling his parents. His classmates had a dinner party in AA System. Some of them were not financially difficult, but there were always people who didn’t have enough money or didn’t have money every time. The rest of the money is not enough for my child to make up. Why do my children always encounter such things? I can’t help asking myself: is there something wrong with my education or our society? Our society calls for cultivating people who are responsible, responsible, ideal and moral. -Reality? We ask others to care, trust and warm ourselves, but how do we treat others? Many parents were afraid that their children would suffer losses in the society in the future, so they taught their children to be hard-pressed, competitive, unreasonable and even take advantage of them. They would rather live frugally than meet the unreasonable requirements of children. Results? Children cultivated by unlimited indulgence learn to be selfish and do not know tolerance and tolerance. I don’t know what kind of language to use to communicate with my son, because I also fell into confusion and meditation. But one thing I know is that all my classmates trust my son very much and are willing to learn and play with him. Thinking of this, I said to my son: Although you have devoted a lot and seemingly suffered a lot, everyone is willing to be with you. Because they got warmth and help from you. Everyone yearns for light and warmth. The sun always selflessly dedicates his own light and heat. Therefore, you are the little sun in the hearts of your relatives and the sun in the hearts of everyone who likes you! [Haste makes trouble] How did the shower stop? I took the opportunity to buy fruit at a nearby fruit store. On the way, I met an old man in his sixties who was selling pears and peaches in a rain cape. His weather-beaten face left the mark carved by years knife. Looking at that face, I changed my mind, stopped and wanted to buy the old man’s fruit, hoping that he could sell it home earlier and stop waiting in the wind and rain. The big and red peach, with delicious color, looks like the queen mother’s flat peach. The pear is golden and looks clearer after being washed by the rain. The old man introduced to me that peaches are juicy peaches produced in Wuxi, crisp and sweet; Pears are big and small, and sweet. I asked about the price. Peaches cost 4 yuan per jin, pears cost 3 yuan per jin. The price was not cheap, but I decided to buy more, each of which weighed 5 Jin. When I got home, I couldn’t wait to peel peaches and pears for my son to eat. Introduce him the good fruit today while cutting. My son said plainly after eating: there is no taste at all. I didn’t believe it, so I tasted it myself. As my son said, there was no fruit smell at all, and there was a pair of good leather bags empty. Normally, the varieties of peaches and pears should be as delicious as the old man introduced. But the times have changed, and everything pays attention to high efficiency and quick success. Look, the fruit I bought today is also a quick-finished product with too much fertilizer, so it loses its original taste. Nowadays, how many food on our table are not instant? Instant meat, instant vegetables and instant eggs are all that you can’t imagine, and no Chinese people can’t make them. Everything has its specific rules of growth and development, ranging from the development of the country and society to the growth and development of individuals, as well as many details in life. If we violate the law of the development of things and blindly pursue speed, we will be too quick to reach. I think of a fable: promoting the growth of seedlings. Think about what we have done in our daily life? Children who learn language learn the knowledge of kindergarten, children in kindergarten learn the knowledge of primary school, and children in primary school learn the knowledge of junior high school. Everything is artificially difficult. What did we gain in the end? What we have gained is a machine that can only learn knowledge and do homework. We forget that we are facing people with life, thoughts and distinct personalities, rather than products without life. For this, our children have lost their due golden childhood. Haste is not up to speed. Why do everyone think that the former vegetables were fragrant and the former meat tasted? Is it true that people’s taste has become higher? Maybe there are some, but to be sure, there was no instant food before. I often heard from the old that only one litter of fat pigs could be produced in the previous year, but now one litter can be produced in a few months. Imagine: Can pork produced in one year and pork produced in several months be chewed as well? Before his death, Mr. Qian Xuesen once had a deep conversation with Premier Wen Jiabao. Why during the period of the Republic of China, the country was turbulent and poor, and schools had been displaced for several times, but they could cultivate so many high-end talents? Why is there few high-end talents coming out after the founding of the People’s Republic of China for so long and the country becomes rich? What’s wrong with our education? With the rapid development of economy, in order to make up for the lost time of the ten-year catastrophe, we have also listed the cultivation of talents as the acceleration state. We regard cultivating talents as the products on the assembly line of the processing factory to copy. Some things are urgent, just like cooking a pot of soup, which needs to be simmered slowly. If making soup is as urgent as cooking, how can you cook delicious food with excellent fragrance? Haste makes it impossible. No matter how highly efficient it is, it cannot violate the development law of objective things. To do something, we need to have the same mentality as gentlemen and ladies walking on the streets of London, leisurely, calm and calm.

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