Dear 21-year-old self: Hello, I suddenly want to write a letter to you, either because of something else, or because I can’t help it for a moment. I wrote a letter to you for the first time, and I didn’t feel any anxiety, nor did I feel dizzy, disgusting, and so on. The sky was still so blue, and the white clouds were still very elegant, however, the winter wind gradually aggravated the speed of invasion to the north, but my mind was still very clear. Before writing, I want to say hello to you. First of all, I have to remind you that I am written to you with critical spirit, so that you can adjust the fall and blood pressure of your mind, and don’t be fainted by Thunder at half time, then it’s really not fun. There is no need to say more nonsense. Ah, I am not talking about you. You see, you are 21 years old and still doing nothing all day long. Buddy, I really feel sorry for you and sad. As a bosom friend who knows you best and understands you best, it is absolutely unique in the world. My friends feel very proud and proud, so they have the obligation to remind you: Ah, it is already 21 people, what else do you want? Don’t pretend to be ignorant and pitiful all day long, just think that someone will sympathize with you, don’t do daydreaming anymore, let alone now it is night, how can there be so many daydreams for you to do, daydream also needs time, isn’t it? There is no need to hide the age of 21 people. 21 is 21. It’s no big deal. When I was a child, you said that you wanted to grow up very much. Now it’s OK. It’s already 21 years old. Isn’t it right to fulfill your childhood dream? Oh, what’s your attitude now? You don’t want to grow up. Look, my head is cut by the door, or it is water. Hum, what do you want? What do you want? Yes, it’s only 21. You have grown up. You think you are pretending to be naive, naive (or you can be more naive), and you think that others will treat you as a teenager, too naive, this is just your wishful thinking. Ha ha, do you think others are blind and can’t see it? Look, don’t be dissatisfied with it. Really, it’s really like this. Your brain is broken. Twenty-one is twenty-one, and it’s nothing. It’s just that when you grow up, you have more ideas and a heavy burden, and there is no need to be at a loss all day long. Missing the past is human nature, which can be understood and forgiven. Who doesn’t miss his beautiful childhood, and who doesn’t miss the beautiful days when he was innocent and carefree playing around his grandma and grandmother? But don’t forget that you are already 21 years old, 21 years old. What else do you want? Do you still want to do nothing and pretend that you don’t know anything? Don’t do that. It is self-deception and irresponsible to yourself. The shadow of your running in the sun is your lost youth. I remember that you were not such a person in the past, and that was a resolute and vigorous person. Everything was well-organized, never lost everything, never pushed today to tomorrow, and everything was almost perfect, take time as an important thing, never hope to see anything messy, treat life, study and work, that is two words pay attention to, it is simply an outstanding young man, have ideals and goals. (Don’t think too much. I didn’t say that you don’t pay attention to it now, but now you have regressed.) But now I have reminded you many times in my heart that you are such a big person. You should have a sense of responsibility and a sense of mission. Look at what you look like now. You are dizzy and dragging all day long, I didn’t put my words in my heart at all. Ha ha, things, the simplest way in the world is to push it to tomorrow, who doesn’t know, don’t you know? Tomorrow after tomorrow, there are so many tomorrow, but how many tomorrows can you entrust, and how many tomorrows can you entrust? To be honest, my buddy is really angry and feels sad and uneasy for you. Buddy, I can’t bear to see you fall. You know, it is always not worth to forgive a person for making himself degenerate by excuse. In fact, corruption is not terrible. What is terrible is that you are sober, watching yourself falling down and doing nothing, and unwilling to stand up to stop yourself from falling down. I think this is the most terrible thing in the world. I can see that you are like this now. You have no determination, and your will is not firm. You should reflect on yourself. Don’t think about what you have all day long. Waste all your time and years. We have all passed the age of running away from home in a fit of pique. We should work hard for our own career, think carefully for our old parents, and calculate for the unknown tomorrow. If you have a dream, go after it, don’t care how far you have to go; If you have an ideal, go to struggle, don’t care how much you have to pay. At the age of 21, we have ideals and goals. We are all fighting and struggling. Don’t let down all our expectations and the beautiful youth. Don’t be timid. Buddy knows what you think in your heart. Damn it, you are not confident. It seems that self-abasement is your specialty. Buddy knows you are bad in everything, but you still have great development potential. Don’t worry so much. If you want to fly higher, try to forget the horizon. You don’t have family conditions, status and relationship background, right, you have nothing. I think a lot of people care about it, and many people will think about it for these aspects. What’s more, you are a guy who lacks courage. However, if you want to live a better life, you need to be confident. If you are full of confidence, think about what life will be like. If you think that you are confident, are you a little excited. To be honest, you are a loser, at least for now. In the future, it depends on creation. The reason, I think, is that the university is too comfortable. In the university, you can be as happy as you want. Hehe, ridiculous, but you are not happy, you have the loneliness that the sunshine can not break down. Of course, these are all the aftermath. University is really a depraved abyss and a paradise to achieve a beautiful dream in the future. The key to what you want to do is yourself. It is really sad to continue with your current progress. Watch the computer all day long, or sleep endlessly, or look at the sky blankly. Oh, what kind of days are you living? Just thinking about it makes you look big. If it goes on like this, I am really sorry for my parents and for helping your relatives and friends. You always think like this, but you are still really sorry for them, not a little, but a lot. Parents work hard for you and have full expectations for you. Think about it, don’t you feel sad? You have, because you are soberly watching yourself fall down. Maybe there is no corruption in others’ eyes, but in my eyes, you are falling. Whatever, 21 years old, a lot of things, it’s time for you to think about it. Tomorrow, where should I go? Tomorrow, I hope you don’t hate yourself now. Struggle is often a matter for one person. The hard work now may be the happiness of tomorrow. Ah, is it good to be a little promising? It is always a dishonorable thing to hide and cry secretly. When thinking of parents and relatives, what’s the use of guilt in your heart? It was a man who shed tears into his heart and swallowed his teeth. Be strong and make up your mind for yourself and your family. Tomorrow is incredible, who knows who will be more promising tomorrow? Now it’s not so good, and people look down upon it. Don’t look down upon yourself. Life is like a chess game. Sometimes the level of chess skills is hidden. Whoever loses wins, whoever wins, and whoever loses. Later, hum, it’s hard to say. Twenty-one is an age of struggle and challenge yourself and others. The wind and water turn around, maybe I will come to your house soon. (I heard you getting angry, have the motivation.) Don’t underestimate my brother, what my buddy said is true. Sample, don’t be proud first, stay proud until the future glory. Speaking of love, I am still unhappy. One must be emotional at least once in one’s life. Why do you make love so unbearable because you are not confident. You are already 21 years old, and you are not too young. You said that you didn’t really have a love affair, and it was over before you started. It seemed to be a little sorry for youth and a little sad. It’s not what I said. It’s really like this. My buddy admitted that you didn’t look very good, but you were not very anxious. At least you didn’t scare the audience. There was nothing wrong with your appearance. It was all given by your parents. But if you don’t try hard to fight for it, you are wrong. Love doesn’t necessarily need much money and energy, and you don’t have to spend a lot of time. Work hard, love can be a powerful motivation, whether for study or work. Love can make a person better. I am really sad for the misfortune and angry. For love, you are very unsuccessful and always afraid to try, which is always very bad. Try it! Many things may happen suddenly overnight. When people talk about love, you are always silent, always saying that a person is also good. In fact, it is a self-comfort in a person’s loneliness. If you want to talk, try harder. Life is not easy, why do you make yourself so tired. After four years of college, if the first kiss is still there, if you haven’t held the girl’s hand, then you are really too delicious, don’t blame me for looking down on you. You are a dead-witted child, unable to speak and slow to respond. Returning to the memory itself, you should take some courage, stop being timid, or learn to face it firmly. In life, love, family affection, friendship, work, career, future, many things are still beyond our control. Although you are so unbearable, I still love you. No one doesn’t love yourself, right? Yes, you should love yourself severely. Don’t say anything else, waiting for your transformation. People come and go, the way you choose, even if you are kneeling, you have to finish it. I hope you can do it yourself! Best wishes for you! Another self lives in the hearts of those who love you Thursday, November 28th, 2013 (if we are all peers, maybe we have a lot in common, writing for ourselves and for your bosom friend!)

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