At five o’clock in the morning, a rush Bell woke me up from my dream. It was my son who called from the Provincial Maternal and Child Hospital: Liangliang has entered the delivery room and is about to give birth. Come here! My daughter-in-law is going to give birth, which is a big deal in our common family. My wife and I, the daughter who came home to visit relatives, took a taxi to the hospital immediately. Within 20 minutes, I arrived at the gate of the delivery room. At this time, daughter-in-law has been into the delivery room, daughter-and son in delivery room outside wait. After a few greetings, we also waited outside the door. The doctor said it was natural labor, but we waited from five o’clock to twelve o’clock, but there was no change. We are all anxious. The mother-in-law was even more impatient. She contacted the nurse, put on protective clothes and went into the delivery room. Slip-understanding. It turned out that the child was too big to be born. Seven or eight doctors did all they could to help. No wonder they waited for such a long time. I discussed with my wife and got the consent of my mother and son, then I would have a caesarean section! I told the doctor: adults first, children second, hope to ensure the safety of mother and child. So, half past twelve, daughter-in-law were pushed to 12 floor operating room emergency Cesare. At 01:12 P.M., several loud cries of babies came out of the operating room. A nurse came out to report. I gave birth to a baby girl, seven Jin, two Liang, 52cm, and the mother and son are safe. My son was a little disappointed, because many people told him before that he would be a boy, and even bet with the escort of the ward that if he was not a man, he would compensate you two thousand yuan. Obviously, he was not well prepared. My wife and I have discussed in advance that it doesn’t matter whether it is a man or a woman. They are all our grandchildren, and they all want them. So I didn’t feel disappointed like my son. At about two o’clock, the child was carried out, saying that it was going to heat up. After placing the daughter-in-law, we rushed to the house next to the operating room immediately and saw the girl being put in a temperature box. She is about one and a half feet long, with big head, long legs, shiny black hair and white skin. Head and nose are like son, others are like daughter-in-law. Seeing us coming, the baby opened his eyes and looked at us unexpectedly. Then, hands and feet began to move. Waving hands and kicking legs, the limbs began to stretch, which was really a dance. Maybe she was not used to the strange world that had just arrived. The girl began to cry with a loud voice. We could hear it through the temperature box. After a while, she began to suck her little hand into her mouth, and then stopped crying. The nurse said that the girl was very clever and knew she was going to eat in half an hour. Standing beside the temperature box, I immediately realized that piajie, a famous Swiss child psychologist, was right. When a natural person comes to the world, one is crying because he is not used to this new environment; The other is sucking, this is the first instinctive reaction of human beings, and all subsequent behaviors are based on this. At 6:30 on July 28th, sunny granddaughter was born. What’s the name? I remembered that my daughter-in-law said earlier that she had a dream that an animal she had never seen was chasing her. When she woke up, she opened the Confucius holy relics on the bookshelf, pointed at an animal in the section of Kylin jade book when Confucius was born, and said: it is it! I have a look, isn’t this the mascot Kylin in Chinese traditional culture? Really prosperous new year. I thought to myself, well, when the child’s name is available, let’s call it Liu Jiaqi or Liu Mengqi! The nickname is Qiqi. On July 28th, I wrote a supplementary note to my family, whose family name is Liu. At noon on July 23th, she was busy with travel and took the train for two days and two nights to Xi’an from Korla city in Xinjiang, which was really sincere. Before that, relatives sent their sons and daughters-in-law from Sinkiang to them cotton-padded clothes, cotton trousers, small bedding, bracelets, silver medals and other things that the children would wear, which were a large package. My son took it back from the post office yesterday and set up a bed. My wife and I were deeply touched. Poor parents all over the world, needles and threads pinned the old man’s true feelings for children. 23 ri A to Xi’an, daughter-would go and see daughter-in-law. I didn’t see her until 24th because I was busy with the decoration of the new house (because the school had a limited time limit and it was summer vacation again), and took her in-laws home for a small stay. I originally planned to let her rest for a few days and go, as a result, my mother-in-law only stayed for one night, and went to the hospital early the next day. She was still deeply in love with her mother and daughter! 27 ri daughter-in-law production day, baby not out, daughter-in-law inside pain cried daughter-in outside, edge joint phone cry. The scene was really unforgettable. When Qi Qi grows up, he should be grateful: it is not easy for your mother to give birth to you, and the sincerity of your grandmother can never be forgotten. Filial piety to the elderly should be the tradition of our nation, and also the meaning of the topic of our family’s loyalty and filial piety, cultivating and reading the family precepts. Remember. 7 yue 29 ri 7:00 Wednesday fine old woman daughter-in-law lovers often say, old woman daughter-in-law relation bad handling. But in our family, this rule seems not to be tenable. The relationship between my wife and my daughter-in-law is very harmonious and harmonious. This makes me very happy. My wife is an honest, virtuous and diligent woman. I have been married to each other for almost 40 years. Although Yi’s education level is not high, he graduated from senior high school and has a rough literacy. However, it is reasonable and has a high IQ. The top leaders at home and abroad handle everything properly, which is a very important reason why I can still get to this point today. Therefore, I always think that the tiny achievements I have made should be half of her contribution. My daughter-in-law is also quite sensible. Before marriage, when she was still a graduate student, she often went to the art building of the school to get along with her wife. In 2006, I went to Hangzhou for a meeting with my wife. After knowing this, my daughter-in-law immediately bought a suitable coat for her wife. My wife is very happy, she has been wearing it all the time, and she has not left her body even when visiting and taking photos in Hangzhou. In 2007, I suffered from pancreatitis and was hospitalized for 50 days. My daughter-in-law often visited me. What moved me in particular was that when she saw her wife accompanying her, she didn’t have a suitable back chair, so she bought a chair with back for Yi to sit (a student who was in school could think, it is really hard to do this), avoiding the sufferings of Yi’s skin and flesh. Nowadays, there are not many young people who can show filial piety and care for the old, but there are more and more people who eat the old. The good national tradition is gradually losing, which makes people sad! It is rare for my daughter-in-law to have filial piety, respect the old and care for others. Therefore, when she talked with her son about friends, my wife and I tried our best to promote them. I observed that the relationship between my wife and my daughter-in-law was well handled. Once I went home to take a car, the driver thought they were mother and daughter, which was also true. My wife did regard her daughter-in-law as a daughter, because firstly, her biological daughter married far away to Guangdong (this was the children’s own choice), and her daughter-in-law made up for this emotional blank; second, it is easy to satisfy my wife. She often said that if others respect me a Chi, I will respect others a Chi; If people respect me and value me, I will get along with anyone sincerely. Good! If you respect others, you will always respect them. The reason why we never leave for 40 years is probably that this principle of life is at work. My wife usually cares about her daughter-in-law, and changes the way to cook for her daughter-in-law to change the taste. I often joke with Yi: I am eat delicious food with my daughter-in-law. My wife was very diligent, and she could knit sweaters and woolen trousers. She made two big bags of new clothes and trousers for the children, and packed up a large pile of diapers alone. Yesterday, I heard from her that she wiped her daughter-in-law and changed her shorts. I said, this is our job and we should do it. People should exchange their hearts with others, treat others with sincerity, and do not deal with bad interpersonal relationships. This is my conclusion from the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in our family. I am willing to share it with many netizens. The following is recorded by children day by day, which can also be counted as a document!

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