Social contact is a college question, but now I want to talk about my views on respect. When it comes to respect, it will naturally be inseparable from the memory of being respected. In fact, many people know whether they are respected or respected, but they are often ignored in social communication. I have my own experience and thoughts about this. In my opinion, no matter where you are, how high your status is and how powerful you are, you should always pay attention to respecting others. I had no concept of social relations before. I am thinking that it is just to maintain the relationship between people, just casually. So I did think so at that time, and I did not pay any attention to its thoughts in my life. As a result, I got along with everyone in a mess. Now when I think about it, I think one of its root causes is that I don’t understand the concept of respect. Therefore, because I take it for granted to treat others in my own way, I will receive corresponding responses. I felt very uncomfortable at that time. I think it should be intimate to get along with two people. I can call you whatever I want. But I didn’t think about the consequences. But when others call you in the same way, they feel very uncomfortable. That is to say, I can’t stand using my own way on myself. So later I found that respect is a great knowledge. If you do not take care of it, it will bring you a lot of troubles and worries. Sometimes I think about how to achieve the problem that makes people feel that they respect him. Because I often think about it, I have some of my own practices. If two people meet each other, there must be a proper formal appellation. Then you must do things straight away and treat each other reasonably according to the rules. Then there are two people who have known each other for a long time. They have to communicate with each other to change their original habits of dealing with each other. Of course, in essence, we still need to do things in a proper manner. Just a little casual on the surface, a little intimate. But as long as you are good at interpersonal relationships, you will find two friends who have good relationships. The harmonious cycle of their relationships is definitely related to the fundamental principles of their work. And this principle is the rule. Everlasting universal rules. And the good interpersonal relationship between the two does not mean that there has been no waves. Only when we stick to the principle of right and wrong can there be friction. Of course, it is reasonable to think about each other’s actions afterwards, so the original friendship will be restored soon. In fact, after all, there are only a few things between people. It is nothing more than that some small interest relationships need to be handled properly. There is almost nothing else. But considering these, I still want to say that it is very difficult to respect others. In life, many people pay attention to respecting others, but the interpersonal relationship of many people is very bad. I think there are many elements in it. For example, his EQ is high and low. There is also the problem of using and scheduling his expressions. There is also the problem of his language expression ability. Anyway a lot a lot. What I want to say is to respect others. Some people say that I AM has been respecting him. But he is very dissatisfied with me. Why? There are also many elements in it. But now I just want to talk about one aspect. That is, you respect others in your own way. Of course, because you don’t care about others’ thoughts, most of them are not satisfied. I conceived an example of this. For example, a Hui nationality comes to a Han nationality family as a guest. If the Han people didn’t know that he was a Hui nationality, they would treat him with pork. If there was trouble, they would communicate with each other, and maybe they would get the understanding of the Hui nationality. Of course, if you know, if you still do this, there will be many consequences. If there were more ethnic groups than Han people at the dinner table last time, then you knew that you still needed to do so. I think an indoor boxing was inevitable. If there are few Hui people, you also know that they are Hui people. You still don’t pay attention to these, and if you put pork food on it, the consequences will be bad. But he just dared not to speak out. Even at that time, you didn’t do extreme behavior, but you will learn a lesson if you go to associate with him another day. In fact, what I want to say is that respecting others can be done well on the basis of understanding others. If you respect others intentionally, but others don’t think you respect them, then such respect is a failure. Only after we understand each other, and at the same time we reach a consensus, can we finish it. Otherwise hard. Just like what I just said. Han love to eat pork. Therefore, he cannot be left on the table on festivals and festivals. As a result, Hui people came from your family. He knows that you know that he is a Hui nationality. But you still make him pork food. That will definitely cause serious consequences. But you will want to say that the Hui people are human, so are the Han people. If we can eat pork, you will not suffer losses. Therefore, based on this kind of psychology, if you contact with Hui people, I think you will never get along well with him. Therefore, I invited the god of protection of all harmonious interpersonal relationships to respect, which means that everyone knows the word respect, but there are too few people who respect others in life. Of course, it is really difficult to respect others. I saw a news on the Internet that a cleaner had swept away the unfinished mineral water of a roadside person, so he fought. You see, this is an example of disrespecting others. He sat there with a bottle of water beside him, and you were not blind. Sweep it away for no reason, you see you are beaten! Of course, this not only reflects the issue of respect. It also reflects the problem of tolerance in interpersonal communication. I don’t think there will be any consequence of fighting if this thing is put on me. In fact, social contact is very complicated and simple. It is really not easy to understand it. But as a person, it is impossible to avoid social problems. I think I just want to talk about my own opinion. Most people in the society can handle the relationship well. So I say they are all sociologists. However, as a person who occasionally wants to talk about it, I will inevitably have shortcomings. Therefore, I said the above is for reference only. Please also invite Wenyou Haihan!

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